This heaviness isn't yours - but it's stuck in your system
Jan 15, 2026 3:01 pm
Sometimes the weight you're carrying doesn't even belong to you. You're holding stress that isn't yours. Old emotions you never got to release. Energetic residue from people you tried to help. Tension inherited from a parent, partner, or past version of yourself. And even though it’s not yours, it’s still running your system. That’s why: you feel heavy when life is going well. You get tired after certain conversations. You feel pressure to show up when nobody’s even asking. You wake up anxious before your day begins.
You’re not broken. You’re just full of energy that never got discharged. And because your body’s smart, it’s compensating. But that compensation costs you. It dulls your instincts. Clouds your clarity. Disconnects you from your real self—the version underneath all the holding. This is invisible trauma: not a dramatic event, but accumulated friction from a life of emotional compression. Most systems don’t know how to let that go because they were never taught how.
You were taught to think through it. Override it. Rationalize it, justify it, move on from it. But energy doesn’t move that way. It moves when it’s met. When it’s felt all the way through. When your system gets a safe space to release the grip. That’s what becomes possible: you stop feeling responsible for everyone else’s energy. You stop carrying weight that doesn’t belong to you. You stop operating from pressure and start leading from peace. This isn’t about reliving the past. It’s about removing what never belonged in your field to begin with, so your body finally remembers what lightness feels like.
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