Healing After Cheating doesn't end sa pagpapatawad mo sa lahat ng nakasakit sayo or sa pagbabalik mo ng TRUST mo sa sarili mo or sa pag manage mo ng anxiety and TRIGGERS mo.
Kasi believe me...
Your management of your own emotions and how you respond to triggers around you in relation to his betrayal is a lifetime journey.
Kaya dito papasok ang tinatawag na self-development and support system.
And yes...
Your self-development or growth should never stop.
Kaya naman proud ako sa Godly Builder na to.
Matapos ang restoration nilang mag asawa after his betrayal, she's busy enough na e level up ang sarili nya.
Sabi pa nga nya sa email reply nya sa akin last Tuesday...
"Thank you, FJ.
I miss you, and know I constantly pray for you and our GB sisters.
This email reminds me to fix my eyes on Jesus and continue to focus on my self-growth though thankful ako at grateful sa transformation ng asawa ko.
The pain and trauma I endured sa betrayal opened my eyes to lots of possibilities the good and the bad.
So I choose to pursue the good side of all these possibilities.
So I made a bucket list of things I want to do to improve myself instead of staying on the hurt, pain, and trauma.
Tapos na ako mag scuba diving which I enjoyed the life under the sea.
I recommend this activity.
Nakaka bless to see God's creation and you learn more about respect and consciousness sa pollution that you may cause to these creatures living under water.
Dahil tapos na akong sumisid, now I am into voice lessons.
Bakit hindi? 
Kahit pangit boses ko, with the help of a coach there is a possibility I can sing well.
Maybe not professionally but somewhat hindi na nakaka basag trip .
My goal is just to express myself through music to feel good, to enjoy, and something to boost my confidence.
At this moment I can say I am using the pain and trauma as my weapon in pursuing things I love, enjoy, and feel good about.
I maximize the time I have in my life while still working on a healthy relationship with my husband and kids.
Thank you, FJ may God continue to bless you and your family."
Ang sarap pakinggan diba ?
And this is one manifestation of how she values herself.
She never stopped learning.
Plus, she's continually seeking help from a mentor or coach to level up.
Importante kasi ang guidance ng isang expert para sa faster transformation na gusto mo in any area of your life.
Kagaya sa healing journey mo, need mo ang help ng mga taong totoong nakaka intindi ng pinagdadaanan mo.
And this is also the reason why I founded the Godly Builders Fam.
It's to answer this kind of dilemma of all Depressed Cheated Women like I was.
Para maramdaman nila na di sila alone sa journey nila.
Here's the thing...
Self-esteem mo ang pinaka affected after betrayal that's why you may still ask your worth until today.
Or maybe you may still ask questions like...
- AM I NOT ENOUGH???
- HINDI BA AKO KA MAHAL2X???
- SAAN BA AKO NAGKULANG???
Kaya sis...
Kung hanggang ngayon depressed, anxious or wala ka pa ring tiwala sa sarili mo...
Seek help.
And choose your network to maximize your net worth. 
To your peace and joy,
FJ Lapera
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