Whenever newbies to Healing After Cheating journey would think about this, they would feel like they're being stepped on.
Kasi feeling nila aping api sila as the victim out of their husband's cheating episodes.
Of course!
Who would ever not think she's not the victim as the betrayed spouse?
Listen.
I'm not talking about being too kind or that you'll act as a martyr.
This is totally nonsense.
Even sa time ni Jesus, he didn't promote over kindness.
Sya mismo, He knew how to rebuke people.
He knows when to get angry to those who sinned especially to the villains in his time, the pharisees, saduccees, etc.
In short... to the so called feeling perfect na leaders in His time.
Lastly, Jesus knew when to set boundaries.
Remember...
He would normally be alone praying or going to the hills or the seaside replenishing His superpowers.
And this is the same with you sis.
If you have experienced betrayal and been to too much depression even to the point of attempted suicide like I was...
What you need is this mindset like Jesus.
This is the same Godly Builder Mindset I teach my students.
Yung tipong meron kang compassion, understanding and deeper love even for those people who hurt you.
Pero meron ka ring pusong marunong mag bigay ng lessons, correction and rebuke and...
Yung di na marupok kaya marunong na mag set ng boundaries.
And speaking of boundaries...
If you had been a long time follower through my social media accounts or emails...
You might have noticed na nag deep hibernation ako recently.
And this is because I needed it.
Need ko ng more time for my son lalo na he's adjusting for school.
Kaka pasok nya lang kasi sa Kinder garten here sa city namin.
And for me, this is the sweetest thing any mom can do for their kids.
To spend their time for them. ^_^
Na remember ko tuloy yung nasa lowest point ako ng buhay ko...
It was also my son who gave me the biggest reason to keep going.
The turning point of my crazy world.
Going back, I can say that my life is worth living now because of the sweetest soul I'm growing and building whom I know is also destined to change lives one day.
Sounds too futuristic right?
But yes!!!
Kapag Godly Builder ka, need mong mag FOCUS sa FUTURE rather than sa naging miserable mong love life.
Kasi bottomline is, kapag laging ang dark past mo ang binabalikan mo, masisira ang buhay mo.
Kaya I wonder kung kamusta ka na .
Still remember me?
If you do and if you want to hear more from me, stay tuned to my next email.
God bless you! ^_^
Rising from the grave,
FJ "Nagbabalik" Lapera
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