The Friday Four—3/26/2021
Mar 26, 2021 4:01 pm
Hi friend!
Here's something for you to...
1) watch.
The TRUE Meaning of Happiness
By one of my favorite YouTubers, Ali Abdaal.
In this video, Ali summarizes and reviews the lovely book I'm currently reading, The Happiness Advantage.
The book disproves this commonly-conceived life formula:
Work hard → Achieve success → Achieve happiness
And scientifically proves that this is the correct formula:
Be happy → Achieve success
2) read.
3-2-1 Thursday newsletter
James Clear wrote Atomic Habits.
This is his short and eloquent newsletter that contains 3 short ideas, 2 thought-provoking quotes, and 1 question to help you reflect deeply.
It's something I look forward to seeing in my inbox each week. Here's the most recent one if you want an example.
3) use.
The Four Tendencies
My latest obsession.
Figuring out your dominant tendency is fascinating. It's analogous to a personality test, but its sole focus is on how you handle expectations. Take this quiz to find out—it takes 60 seconds.
Here are the Four Tendencies in a nutshell (but after you take the quiz you can see a much deeper description of yours):
Upholder: meets outer expectations, meets inner expectations
Obliger: meets outer expectations, resists inner expectations
Questioner: resists outer expectations, meets inner expectations
Rebel: resists outer expectations, resists inner expectations
Email me your results! I'd love to talk about it.
4) listen to.
SunSquabi - Cinnamon Feat. Late Night Radio
A group I'm revisiting. They make me feel things.
Listen on Spotify, iTunes, or Soundcloud.
Extras.
Some of my blogs.
How to win no matter what
Corny title but it makes sense.
The Four Tendencies
About the quiz and book mentioned above.
The one thing every happy person does
It's not cocaine.
Quotes.
“99% of people don’t fall in the top 1%.”
-Shawn Achor
“Magic is just someone spending more time on something than anyone else might reasonably expect.”
-Teller
“Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.”
-Winston Churchill
Thank you so much for the support, friends! If you enjoyed this newsletter, I encourage you to forward it or invite your friends to subscribe. I hope you all are happy and healthy 😎
Much love.
Dill 💙