Hey ,

Letting go isn’t just something parents do as their kids grow up; it’s a universal challenge that touches every aspect of our lives. This year, as my kiddo entered 11th grade, I was reminded of how much we’ve both grown—not just in age, but in resilience and understanding.

My Story

Dropping off Oli for her first day of kindergarten was an emotional roller coaster. She was so excited and confident, but I was the one fighting back tears. Fast forward to today, and Oliver, who goes by He/Him, is navigating high school with the same excitement and determination. It’s incredible to see how letting go has been a journey of growth for both of us.

I am incredibly proud of my precious Oli. His decision to embrace his true self and identify as Oliver has taught me so much about the courage it takes to be who you want to be, rather than who you think others want you to be. This journey has opened my eyes to the bravery required to live authentically and speak my truth. Watching Oliver become the person he is meant to be has been both inspiring and humbling.

Advocating for Oliver's mental health has been a significant part of this journey. After 13 years of persistence, I finally won the court battle to get his autism recognized. It wasn’t easy, but I’m proud to be "that Mom" who never stops at "No." This experience has shown me the power of resilience and the importance of embracing change.

Letting go isn’t just about our kids becoming more independent; it’s about us growing alongside them, embracing the changes in our lives, and finding new ways to connect and support each other.

Journaling Prompt

📝 What are you most proud of in your child/children's growth? How have you grown as a parent? How have you grown together?

I invite you to share your own stories of letting go and embracing change. How has your journey impacted your life and relationships? Hit reply and let’s connect—I’d love to hear your experiences and insights.

“The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.” Alan Watts

We all face challenges and changes in our lives, but it’s how we respond to them that truly defines our journey. The journey of growth, letting go, and overcoming challenges is a profound lesson that Oliver and I have been through together. It’s taught us the value of resilience, authenticity, and the power of never giving up.

By sharing our stories and supporting each other, we can create a strong and uplifting community. I’d love to hear from you. What challenges have you faced, and how have you grown from them? Let’s share our stories and inspire each other to keep moving forward.

Thank you for being part of this amazing community. Together, we can overcome any obstacle and achieve great things.

With love and support,

Charity 💖

P.S. Too long to read? I get it. Here are the cliff notes:

• Letting go is a universal challenge that teaches us about growth and change.
• Oliver's journey has reminded me of the importance of embracing authenticity and being true to oneself.
• I’m proud of advocating for my child’s mental health and finally winning a 13-year battle to get his autism recognized.
• Letting go is about growing with our children and embracing the changes in our lives.