Freud, pleasure and death

There came a time where I chose.  I chose to say YES to Life. I had often struggled against the Life instinct and felt more aligned to the Death instinct. (Freud did get something right in naming these polarities) The pull of...

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Oct 27, 2023
I was never good at this.

I don’t think I’m unusual in this, being in a female body and all.  I learned through osmosis that work and caregiving was more important than pleasure.I learned that being busy was the antidote for feeling too much. I learned that being bu...

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Oct 21, 2023
hate, love, wanting to give up and guilt

It was so nourishing to be with women in person last weekend.Whether online or in person, I always feel the big boost of oxytocin after being in circle. I’ve had a hard time this weekend tho, feeling free to ‘feel good’ when I am also so shocked...

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Oct 16, 2023
the one Goddess Archetype most women turn away from

So in my hundreds of sessions with women over 3 decades I saw this archetype denied, hidden or shamed repeatedly.Which one do you think it is?I grew up watching movies about her that gave me the message, "You never want to be associated with that kin...

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Oct 14, 2023
meeting with the Archetypal Goddess of Life and Rebirth

I write to you beauties as I renew my claim and commitment to work in inspiring women and sharing all that I have remembered in this crazy life.  It's been a year since cancer treatments ended, the YES to Life! trip to Scotland and a year filled...

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Oct 10, 2023
Divine Women

I've been researching more on Divine Women for a major project.Due to my thesis ages ago, work at the college and personal interest of the last decades, I have learned more than most on spiritual women of various traditions, ancient Goddesses and wom...

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Sep 19, 2023
Dreams, whispers and womanhood

Here I am as promised, whispering in your ear......What do you dream of my friend?What stirs your heart lately? Have you been in touch with that piece of yourself that remembers a time before time?This afternoon 5pm PST ladies, Dreams, Whispers and...

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Sep 05, 2023