Hi Lovelies!I know this time of year can be difficult. If this is family season for you, and even if you love/are loved by your family, it doesn't mean spending time together is always easy. So, here is Communicating with Intention, a free communicat...

Hi !It’s been a while since you've heard from me, so I'm reaching out because I’ve missed doing this work.Since reaching doctora status and completing my Sex Doula and Authentic Consent trainings, I’ve been deep in research and developing an embodied...

Hi everyone!It was absolutely wonderful to share space with you on Friday morning. Tashé and I could not have been happier or more honored with how ya'll showed up in our Breathing into Consent: Practicing the Sacred Pause workshop. Truly, thank you....

Hi everyone!It was absolutely wonderful to share space with you on Friday morning. Tashé and I could not have been happier or more honored with how ya'll showed up in our Breathing into Consent: Practicing the Sacred Pause workshop. Truly, thank you....

Hi lovely humans!I've been MIA newsletter-wise probably since I started my Substack (where some of you follow me!) but I'm realizing these two platforms get to serve different purposes and so I am bringing you all together for some announcements and...

When I first tried SVibe’s Snail Curve, it delivered an almost instant orgasm by combining a perfectly curved, powerfully vibrating g-spot arm with a clitoral stimulator that follows every thrust.

How do you define the concept of home? Is it a place, person/people, things? How does having/not having home impact you?

Every relationship is different and therefore coaching sessions will vary depending upon what the people entering the space need. But with that in mind, it can still be useful to get an idea of what role I will and will not play in your relatio...

The other night, one of my orgasms was interrupted by a change in position and rhythm and it messed me up! I was in my head reaching for fantasies and desperately trying to find the lost orgasm amidst feelings of frustration, resentment, and a...

Conflicts happen. Difficult conversations are needed. Not everything can be rainbows and unicorns all the time. But when difficult conversations become an angry and pointless wrestling match against a loved one, no one is winning. The following...

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I have a bit of a reputation for sticking to my values (one I am super proud to have), sometimes at the expense of actually getting the things I want because I jump too soon.

Last year offered numerous examples of discoveries and disproving of myths that have been perpetuated by gender bias and have long impacted scientific narratives with real-life impacts that could have been avoided through self-reflective method...

This comes the 37th issue of the Sex Positive You newsletter. It felt important to make it available to a wider audience.

Question 1: How to communicate with a partner who doesn’t want to try anything new?