Good afternoon lovelies,Did you know that your arousal is like a compass? It points you toward what feels good—and away from what doesn’t.But if we don’t take the time to understand our desires, that compass can feel broken or hard to follow.In Mappi...

Goodmorning folks at TN Tech!I'm resending my email from last week in case you were interested and needed a reminder! Reply to this email if you'd like a final reminder before March 1st or if you need more time. .............................We met la...

Goodmorning everyone!I'm resending my email from last week in case you were interested and needed a reminder! Reply to this email if you'd like a final reminder before March 1st or if you need more time. .................................................

Goodmorning everyone!I'm resending my email from last week in case you were interested and needed a reminder! Reply to this email if you'd like a final reminder before March 1st or if you need more time. ..........................................We m...

Good morning loves,Let’s bust a myth: Arousal isn’t just about sex—it’s about connection, desire, and the environments that make you feel good.And it doesn’t look the same for everyone! Some people feel arousal spontaneously, while others need a litt...

Good afternoon everyone!We met (or met again) last fall at Sex Down South 2024 where I hosted one of my signature workshops, "(Re) Learning to Listen to Your Body".As you may or may not know, I am finishing up my dissertation (I defend in 8 days!) an...

Good afternoon everyone!We met (or met again) last fall at the inaugural Midwest Love Fest where I hosted two of my signature workshops, "Tools for Smoothing the Transition into CNM & Polyamory" and "Creating Authentically Consensual Experiences...

Hi lovelies,Imagine having a map to your unique arousal—a guide that helps you understand exactly what gets you going and keeps you going. An Arousal Map isn’t a one-size-fits-all thing; it’s a deeply personal exploration of what brings out your acti...

Good afternoon folks at TN Tech!We met last fall when I came to your campus to offer a workshop, "Sexuality and Self-Awareness: Knowledge is Power" and a research talk, "Body, Belonging, Race, Fetishization, and Sex: Creating a Research Project that...

Hi Lovelies!Have you ever wondered what truly turns you on—not just in a sexual way but in a deeply sensual, fulfilling way?We often assume arousal just happens, but the truth is, it’s personal, unique, and something you can map and understand. That’...