The mastermind isn’t about healing

May 19, 2025 12:56 pm

The mastermind isn’t about healing. 


Healing is a byproduct of what we are cocreating in this space… but first I want to tell you a story. 



“Ahhhhhh!!!!! I’m in!!!” I squeal and throw my phone across the room in the middle of a movie night with my boyfriend and family. 


I startle everyone as they look at me in confusion.. 


My heart is beating a million beats a minute, I feel like I just held onto a bolt of lightning, and I need to run a marathon to do something with all this energy moving through my body!!!


“What are you talking about?!” All eyes are on me…



“I’m in! I’m in massage school and I start next month!” I squeal and feel my cheeks begin to burn as I can’t stop smiling. 


What came the next few days .. immediately following this was not what I expected. 


“You’re too smart to be a massage therapist.. you should be a doctor!!”


“This is hard work with little pay… what are you doing?!”


“You can’t just drop out of your business program! You’re over halfway done !!” 



The comments from well intentioned people in my life came rolling in expressing their lack of support in my decision. 


And to be honest .. it was fucking annoying. 


I am LIT UP over this and I feel activated.. I dont know what this will look like but I do know that this is the first decision I have made for ME and no one else. 


It ended up being arguably one of the most life altering choices I could have made. 


One that not only led me to my purpose, but led me through what many call “the dark night of the soul”. Through school I came face to face with core beliefs that were deeply rooted in my identity. 


Post school — I began drinking heavily and partying hard — in hindsight there was a lot of numbing & shoving down who I was, and the wounds I was carrying. So I surrounded myself with people and put myself in environments that matched that. 


As I began to pull out of this and desire more connection from life.. I met who would become my future husband and the father to our babies .. and began another level of initiation.. 


All of this took place over 10 years.. and created something really fucking epic. 


It created this desire to collapse time for people around me that are ready to embody their power.. be themselves unappologetically… reclaim the parts of themselves that they bought as wrong & therefore rejected. 


More so it began this desire to walk with those ready to tap into their infinite potential. . . Those willing to see life differently. 


The 1%. 



Healing is a byproduct of choosing to show up fully as you, even when…


It doesn’t make sense 

You receive push back 

People don’t understand 

You feel alone 

You don’t fully know where you’re going 

It’s really fking messy. 


The golden thread through it all is the courage to be all of you, while having the emotional intelligence of what each moment requires of you. 


You don’t just go out there care bear blasting people, but begin to the look through the lens of “would this be a contribution to them?” 


Sometimes that looks like planting a seed, being the trigger, and saying something they won’t like in the moment. 


Sometimes .. that looks like silence, offering love, and moving forward. 


You are a BRILLIANT human being who is POTENT AF and it’s important to place your energy in the spaces that are going to expand you, those around you, and the collective as a whole. . . Which is not begging and pleading people to understand you. Is not getting loud and obnoxious .. demanding to be heard. 


It’s in the subtle & micro moments. 


It’s through who you ARE. 


& if we are being totally honest — you’re probably seeking permission and validation from those who are not able to give it to you..


BECAUSE YOU ARE DIFFERENT. 


You desire more than what the average person settles for. 


You want greater intimacy. 

A phat bank account. 

To make an impact. 

To stop the generational trauma with you. 


And those around you - likely cannot even see it. 


But you can… 


And so can the 13 incredible women who have said YES to the Body Alchemist Mastermind Experience!!!!



There is a community of powerful AF women ready and willing to pour into you — all you have to do is trust and LEAP. 



Xx


Whitney Jean Buck | The Body Alchemist 

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