How Anna got her groove back

Jul 11, 2025 6:56 am

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“Whether it’s money, love, fear, or purpose, it’s all mapped in the mind. And maps can be changed.” 


Hey ,


Over the past few days I've shared a bit about Subconscious Remapping (SRM for short)...


Today I'd like to share a case study about a client of mine.


Her name has been changed on request.


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How a Single Subconscious Remapping Session Helped Anna Break a Lifetime Pattern

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Anna was a 34yr old marketing manager.


On paper she was successful..


Smart...


Creative...


And respected in her field.


But in her personal life she felt stuck.


Every relationship followed the same pattern.


She’d start open, caring, and giving.


Soon she’d feel unappreciated.


She’d over give to prove her worth.


She’d feel resentment.


She’d finally pull away or sabotage things to end the pain.


She told me:


“I keep choosing men who don’t choose me back. It’s like I’m addicted to being second place.”


She’d tried talk therapy.


She’d read all the books.


She knew the pattern consciously.


But she couldn’t stop it.


I introduced Anna to Subconscious Remapping.


We didn’t analyze her history or debate her choices.


We explored her inner landscape.


And at a point in the processs I asked..


What's in front of you?


She hesitated then said:


It’s a long, narrow bridge over a dark canyon. It’s rickety. I have to balance carefully. I feel sick looking at it.


I stayed quiet.


What’s behind you?


She said...


It’s...a giant gate, closed and locked.


She began crying.


I asked..


What does the bridge mean to you?


She said..


It’s how I connect to people. I have to perform perfectly or I fall.


I asked her:


What would make the bridge safer?


She paused, visualized. And said...


If it were wider. Stronger. Made of stone.


I asked...


“Can you build that?”


She nodded.


Tears flowing...


She described widening it...


Reinforcing it...


Removing the swaying ropes.


Next I asked...


What about the gate behind you?

She turned to it in her mind.


It’s heavy. Rusted shut.


I asked...


What would you like to do with it?


She said


I want to open it.


She described pushing it open, feeling a breeze.


It’s bright back there now. I feel lighter.


The Result


When I checked her emotional state, she was calm.


She said:


I can feel the new bridge. It’s safe. I don’t have to prove anything to cross.

We ended the session.


About a month later, she emailed:


I don’t know how to explain this. I went on a date last weekend. For the first time I didn’t over give, over perform, or feel desperate. I felt...solid. He asked to see me again. I didn’t even panic. It’s like the bridge is still there in my mind.


Here's the thing..


Anna didn’t just “talk about” her pattern.


She saw it as a symbol.


She felt its truth.


She changed it at the root.


The subconscious accepted the new metaphor without resistance...


Because it was hers.


Subconscious Remapping bypasses conscious defenses.


It turns abstract problems into tangible symbols.


The client owns the change, they design it.


Even complex lifelong patterns can shift in a single session.


Imagine offering this level of transformation to your clients.


Whether you’re a coach, therapist, healer, or consultant...


This is the work that gets remembered.


This is the work that builds a reputation.


This is the work that changes lives.


That’s why I teach Subconscious Remapping.


Because when you help someone redesign their inner map...


You give them the power to change everything.


Want to learn how to do this?


Become a Certified Subconscious Remapping Facilitator.


👉 [Click here to enroll and master the art of deep client transformation.]


Tomorrow I'll share with you why SRM should be part of your tool kit no matter what your current expertise is.


This is The Certain Way.


Get out of your own way.


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