5 Overlooked Things Blocking Manifestation
Jul 11, 2024 4:00 pm
Hi there ,
Have you ever heard this before?
You are manifesting all the time.
It's absolutely true! Think about this for a moment. When you wake up late, spill your coffee, lose your keys, get stuck in traffic and realize you forgot to return that call...
And you think to yourself, 'Of course! This is such a bad day.'
Ever notice how you keep finding more ways to prove that it's a bad day?
Manifestation is an energetic and emotional process, not a rational one.
We don't decide we want to have a bad day. We feel it's all going wrong, and then the vibration of a bad day resonates out and brings in more of that frequency.
Or from a psychological standpoint, we've noticed a negative trend and made a subconscious choice to feed that into our reticular activating system. So now our focus is on all the things which reinforce that 'bad day' message.
So if you're not making conscious choices, choices are being made for you.
Yep. Your unconscious is hard at work within your brain directing how things are manifesting in your life. Your personal frequency and energetic vibrations are forever drawing in what matches.
This is the core of the Law of Attraction. Like attracts like. Get it?
But if manifestation is happening all the time, how can it get blocked?
Great question! It doesn't BUT what you're wanting to manifest does. Those healthy bodies, that financial abundance, the fulfilling relationships, and all those beautiful elements you truly want...
They're hitting the big, fat, block wall.
Your intentional manifestations are getting tripped up by these, often overlooked things.
Manifestation is a constant, natural, but often subtle process. Intentional manifestation is where people want to get to. That's when we have a conscious desire and thought to create or call something into our lives, and it appears!
So let's get you empowered to resolve some of the things people don't even realize are keeping their miracles from happening!
1) You're not asking for what you think you are
Say what?! Yeah you read that right. Easily 90% of the people I talk to think they know what they're trying to manifest, but don't.
For example, one I hear a lot is 'I want to manifest losing weight'. Seems clear enough right? Wrong!
What is losing weight to you? There's a big difference between wanting to drop 5lbs and 50lbs. Are you wanting it off for a weekend or forever? Does it bother you if you lose the weight as muscle or did you really want to get rid of fat?
It goes on and on. The Universe doesn't deal in subtext. It's important to be super clear on what you want to manifest on a number of levels. That's why I guide my client's through a variety of ways to get in touch with exactly what they want.
2) The people around you are messing with your vibe
Ever heard the phrase, 'misery loves company'? Yep! That's what I'm talking about.
It's a rare person who can be surrounded by unmotivated and unhappy people and still keep themselves focused on the good in life.
We can't always chose who is around us, but in the moments that we can it is important to be with those who make it easier to stay in that place of hope, joy, and gratitude.
Bonus: this amplifies your own vibration in these master attractor energies!
3) Wanting it for the wrong reasons
Listen, no judgements here, but wanting to be rich and successful to rub your ex's nose in it... really isn't going to manifest what you want.
Likewise, trying to manifest that picture perfect relationship with 2.5 kids and the dog because that's what you've always been told you 'should' do... would never happen if your heart longs for travel and solo adventures.
Be open to finding what you truly want and what feels right to only you. It's your life after all. I help my clients get in touch with the core of why they want something as our first step.
4) Time isn't what you think
This is a tough one. Most people will assume they can't manifest or that manifestation doesn't work because it doesn't happen when they think it should.
We live in a world that demands near instant gratification. Everything we do has gotten faster till our attention spans have gotten shockingly shorter.
So waking up to not having manifested something the next day can often demotivate someone.
Big dreams can take time to come true. It can take days, weeks, months, or yes... even years. Just because our perception of the time it's taking doesn't fit our expectation for when it should have appeared, doesn't mean our manifestation isn't working.
That's why it helps to have a coach or a community to keep you from giving up too soon.
5) You're not ready
This is the hardest pill of all to sallow.
Just like so many of those who win the lottery end up with the kind of wealth most only dream about, only to lose it in a year's time. Having the manifestations you desire most requires being the kind of person who can appreciate and hold onto them.
A lot of times, that means there's lessons to learn or growth to experience. Very few of us were ready for the lives we live in our 20's and 30's when we were in our teens.
Even though we longed for that independence. We had no conception of the responsibilities that came with it and what it would take to maintain it did we?
We grow through the journey of getting to our goals. So too, we must consider what and who we need to be to accept and hold onto our manifestations made real.
Could you use some support with any of these?
I'd love to help you bust these blocks! I just cleared some space in my schedule for more 30-minute Discovery Calls for FREE!
This is our chance to chat about what your dreams are, which of these blocks may be stopping you from manifesting them, and what it could look like for us to work together on them!
Could my BETwixt Method be right for you? Let's find out!
To Your Dreams,
~Elizabeth Watson