Have you ever felt a deep, unexplainable void, a persistent feeling that something essential is missing from your life? Despite hitting various milestones and following daily routines, do you still wonder if there’s more to life than this?

You’re not alone.

Many of us unknowingly settle for less than we deserve, letting comfort and complacency overshadow our true potential—whether it’s in our careers, relationships, or personal growth.

But how can you tell if you’re truly settling for less? 

Here are 8 signs you might be settling in life:

1. You Feel Uninspired

If you wake up every morning dreading the day ahead, it’s a clear sign you’re settling. Inspiration and excitement are key indicators of a fulfilling life. Consider what genuinely excites you and take small steps towards integrating those passions into your daily routine.

2. You’re Constantly Making Excuses

Making excuses for why you can’t pursue something better is a common symptom of settling. Whether it’s fear, lack of resources, or time constraints, recognize these excuses for what they are. Start addressing them one by one to pave the way for progress.

3. You Feel Stuck in Your Comfort Zone

While comfort zones are nice, they can also be traps that keep you from growing. If you’re not challenging yourself or trying new things, you’re likely settling. Push your boundaries by taking risks, no matter how small they might seem.

4. Your Relationships Are Unfulfilling

Healthy relationships should add joy and support to your life. If you find yourself in toxic or unfulfilling relationships, it’s a sign you’re settling. Surround yourself with people who uplift and inspire you.

5. You Experience Frequent Burnout

Constantly feeling drained and overwhelmed can indicate that you’re not living in alignment with your true self. Assess your workload and responsibilities. It’s important to create a balance that allows you to recharge and pursue your passions.

6. You Lack a Sense of Achievement

If you’re not feeling a sense of accomplishment in your daily life, it’s time to reassess. Setting and achieving small goals can reignite your sense of purpose and drive. Celebrating your successes, no matter how minor they may seem, is a great way to boost your motivation and your confidence.

7. You’ve Stopped Dreaming

Dreams are the fuel that drives us towards a better future. If you’ve stopped dreaming, you’re settling for what you have instead of striving for what you could have. Reignite your imagination and start envisioning the life you truly desire.

8. You Feel a Constant Sense of Restlessness

A lingering sense of restlessness often means there’s something more you’re yearning for. Listen to this feeling. Your inner self is telling you that you deserve more. Identify what’s causing this restlessness and take proactive steps to address it.

Looking at the 8 signs, which ones resonate with you? The ones you choose are the areas you want to focus on and start shifting.

How to Strive for More

1. Set Clear, Ambitious Goals: Take time to journal about what you truly want for your future. Once you are clear, set small realistic goals with actionable steps that are simple to achieve.
2. Take Action: Focus on taking one small step at a time until completion before moving to the next step.
3. Seek Support: Surround yourself with positive influences and seek a mentor or a coach who can guide and support you on your journey.
4. Embrace Change: Be open to new opportunities and be willing to step out of your comfort zone. Get curious and embrace your adventurous spirit.
5. Invest in Yourself: Continue learning and growing, whether through formal education, hobbies, or new experiences.

Journal Prompts:

Create 2 lists: What I want more of in my life and what I want less of in my life.

For what you want more of in your life, write down one small step you can take now to bring into your life.

What am I curious about right now? Create a list of things you would like to do or learn or visit - just list them. Looking at the list, pick 1 to 5 (no more) and decide to investigate what's possible.

Recognizing that you are settling is the first step towards a more fulfilling and unapologetic life. Remember, you deserve a life filled with joy, passion, and purpose. Start making changes today and move closer to the life you’ve always dreamed of. It's out there waiting for you!

If you are settling in your relationships or in other aspects of your life, and are ready to make a change  CLICK HERE to schedule your Boldly You Introductory Call with me today so that you can learn how to reach your true potential.