To Be Happy Always – Love Yourself, Love God And Love Others (Part 3) | Soul Sustenance 21-07-2025 - Brahma Kumaris

Love Others And Respect Them For Their Goodness

The third and very important aspect of experiencing happiness is loving others with a big heart. Sometimes on the path of life, when we have faced bitterness and pain from different people, we tend to start only loving ourselves and we become – self-centered. Also, sometimes some people have a lot of love for God, but less and conditional love for human souls because of their negative past experiences with them. Actually, remaining happy constantly is not possible if you have people in your life whom you don’t like or you carry negative feelings for them. If looking at people or meeting them or even thinking about them causes negative thoughts and feelings to arise in your mind, then this negativity reduces your happiness easily and in very little time. Also, carrying feelings of revenge for someone because they had harmed us in the past makes us heavy and we lose the blessings of not only that person but also of God, because God loves those who love others also, not only Him.

Practicing seeing everyone as beautiful souls whose 7 original qualities are the same as ours makes us see them with a positive and spiritual vision of equality. And we also remember their Supreme Father and mine are the same and we have all received all qualities from Him and He is the Source for all of us. Yes, that is true sometimes that they may have some negative sanskars in them and we also may be better souls than them in the present or in certain situations. But originally, we were all nice souls and full of goodness, which we need to remind ourselves constantly. Otherwise, it is very easy to see weaknesses and keep becoming negative and losing our soul strength. The more we train our minds to see others’ positive qualities and remember what good they have done for us the lighter we feel and when we don’t see temporary weaknesses or be judgmental about the negative behaviour of others, we don’t feel hurt and unhappy.