If you do not own (take full responsibility for) your sex life, you are most likely to be a victim of life. If you think this is a lie, ask women who have had several abortions and those who have children they did not plan, without being raped.
I know the consequences of not taking responsivity for one’s sex life, this is why I do not joke about it in my relationships. This reflected well in my last relationship; both of us were upfront and realistic about our sexual needs and it helped.
However, after we left each other by mutual agreement, I have sent many women away or just put them in friends’ zone for one reason only: THEY DO NOT TAKE RESPONSIBILITIES FOR THEIR SEX LIFE. Sex is always something a guy does to them and I did not want to be that guy lest I be roped with sexual misconduct.
I have met women who have slept with more than 30 men and had sex more than 300 times in their lives, but have never told any of those men they wanted it and will never admit they wanted it.
As a result of their inability to take charge of their sex life, they also never make any vital decisions about their lives; life just happens to them. Such women usually get hurt during sexual intercourse and they will not be able to complain.
They rarely enjoy sex and cheats more, because they are unable to communicate during sex for the fear of being branded whores. Many of them never really have a good relationship because of avoidable sexual errors and hypocrisy.
When you talk about sex with them in an intimate relationship, instead of them recognizing it as a vital part of the relationship concerning which both parties involved should arrive at a compromise, they accuse you of wanting only sex from them. Moreover, you will have to virtually force them to give in if they eventually agree.
Some so-called virgins too are ignorant! They think being a virgin means they do not have a sex life, so they feel there is nothing to learn. What they do not know is that they are only postponing their misery. Whether you are a virgin or not, you have a sex life and you must do your best to take full responsibility for it.
If you don’t, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Your sex life forms a greater part of love life and has a connection with your spiritual life too. Depending on how you manage it, it may determine your spiritual well-being, affect your love life and career as well.
You must learn how to manage it appropriately. If not you are most likely to fail in all ramifications of your life.
If you need more education on how to be in charge of your sex life and also get the best out of your sex emotion and become a genius through it, I advise you buy and read the book HOW TO BECOME A GENIUS THROUGH SEX.
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