The most productive times in my life are the times that I was in romantic relationships, in which sex was not an issue or scarce resource. I was most productive at these times because I had emotional stability, which came with sex from a singular source I considered right and safe, and who did not make me stress, beg, persuade, become idiotic, or rack my brain to get it.
This needful supply of sex prevented me from wasting my most important energy planning how to get sex from different women or negotiating with the commercial workers for the best deal, as most men often do, which most times does not give the needed satisfaction to keep one’s mind off sex and concentrate on other vital aspects of life.
We have been deceived into believing that a lack of sex makes you concentrate and become serious in life, but the reverse is often the truth. Lack of sex drives people to mediocrity as much as lack of control over one’s desire for it does.
I wrote the now globally recognized book HOW TO BECOME A GENIUS THROUGH SEX, and one of the major topics in it is SEX TRANSMUTATION, but despite that, the book does not preach long-term abstinence from sex nor indiscriminate engagement in it. It is always about proper management of your most important energy.
I do not preach premarital sex, but I am also not interested in the “NO SEX TILL MARRIAGE” nonsense in my relationships. If it works for you, carry on, but that is never going to be with me. If you want to live by that rule, it just shows we cannot get married because we have to date before getting married, and if we date, I am not going to take sex out of it. I am not an idiot. I do not put my life on hold to show I love a woman. Moreover, marriage is not a destination; it is a progression, and that progression begins with dating and courting.
The women I have asked out can testify to the fact that I always talk about sex after the first few regular conversations. This often gives me away as unserious and a sex monger, but that is because these women have been wrongly educated about sex. The reason I do not leave sex out or for later is simple – I know that sex is a vital building block of a romantic relationship. You do not leave the foundation for later when building a house unless you want it to crash. Imagine building a house and putting the foundation on the roof. How long will it last?
Most people know that sex is and ought to be the foundation of a romantic relationship, but they have to make a religious stand. That does not work for me, especially because I am not religious. The difference between them and me is that while they pretend that they do not want sex, despite wanting and needing it, I don’t! I know that there can be no successful romantic relationship without sexual activity and compatibility. No religious belief can make me ignore this reality.
I have never had a futile romantic relationship; they’ve all been productive. The reason is that I establish our sexual standards before we go deep into it. Most of the proposals did not last beyond the stage of sexual conversation, and it shows one thing—THESE WOMEN DID NOT LIKE ME. What is the point of being in a relationship with a woman who I know does not like me? The very few women who got past this stage became the reason for my high productivity. I am either in a productive relationship or I am single. It is usually worth it.
Talking about sex at the beginning of a romantic relationship is called the Sexual Involvement Test (SIT). It has a 100% success rate for romantic relationships, especially when men are trying to find out if a woman loves them. A woman who does not love you would never imagine having sex with you; the thought of it irritates her, so she avoids the talk and the act with you at all costs.
She only agrees to it reluctantly if she needs you to do something for her. However, that will not be without your insistence. Women can pretend about everything, but this. That is why I have never been in a time-wasting and futile romantic relationship. All the women I have dated have played significant roles in my progress. I saw to it.
Most men often assume that the reason their romantic partners avoid sexual talk and acts with them is that they are sexually disciplined and holy. They are scared of starting sexual topics with them for fear of being tagged as sex mongers. The truth, however, is that these women do not just love these men.
This same woman gets sexually involved with the man that they love. While a woman can have sex with anyone for money or other reasons, and ovulation can make her discuss sex with the available man, she only enjoys discussing sex with the man that she loves, whether she’s ovulating or not.
Why would I want to date or marry a woman I can’t be sexual with? She is the only person I should show that part of me with, and if she turns out to be the only person I cannot do it with, she is better off not in that position at all.
A lot of men waste their most useful energy and resources, risking their financial stability and reputation to indulge in sex with women other than their girlfriends or wives, because they are in a relationship with women that they cannot be sexually free. That is a mismatch.
Do not talk to me about religion! Women break their religious rules when they want something; they always do. Most church girls have offered sex for money, not once, not twice. Most of them are active prostitutes. They forgot their religious beliefs because they wanted the money. If a woman wants you and loves you, that’s the same way she’d forget her religious beliefs to be with you.
Women lower their standards, especially in terms of sex, for the men they love. For those that they don’t love, they set the standard a little higher than normal and watch them struggle to beat it. If a woman shuts out the talk of sex with you in a romantic relationship, she does not love you.
Written by Soul'e Rhymez
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