Joy has been living with Frank for about a year. We live on the same street. However, she was married to another man abroad. This man pays her bills & helps her family financially but she never told Frank about her marital status.
As time went on, the news of Frank got to her husband, who is a cult leader and drug lord. He immediately sent his boys in Nigeria to eliminate Frank for having an affair with his wife. His picture was given to the guys that will do the job but one of them happens to be his uncle.
His uncle summoned him and asked if he knew Joy was married but he said he did not know. He helped him to plead with her husband and that was how he escaped death.
Now, one may ask – why was Joy cheating on her husband despite he was paying her bills and also helping her family? The answer is straightforward – because joy is a woman & a sexual being. Her husband is abroad and nothing stops him from having sex with other women, but after more than one year, he expects Joy to stay without sex.
That is not his fault, especially if Joy made him believe that she could stay without sex for that long.
Most women are sexual hypocrites – They can never admit to needing sex as much as men do. This is a weakness that often backfires against them & whoever is unfortunate enough to be with them.
For instance, only one woman out of more than 20 that I asked when was the last time they had sex, said last night, for the others it was always 4 months or years ago. Many of them lied about it. Even if a woman had sex last night & you ask her today, she will probably tell you that she has had no sex in two years.
Most women have been cursed to always appear as if they do not need sex, but in reality, they need & want sex more than men. Joy lives with Frank for sexual satisfaction and nothing more. However, it is stupid of her husband to stay away for that long & expect her to not have sex. That is a punishment, not discipline to a sexually active woman.
It is easier for a virgin live for years without sex, but a sexually active woman cannot stay that long without sex. It is still a mystery to me why some men leaves their romantic partner here, go abroad, spend years there & expect her to stay without sex for those years. That is quite unrealistic even though many women will make you believe that they can do it.
Except your sexually active partner is sick, extremely ugly, or old and no man finds her attractive, if you leave her for more than one year, you can be sure that she has cheated on you once, twice, or even more times. Sexual urge does not recognize gender & contrary to what you have always believed, it is easier for men to stay off sex for a longer time than women, especially the attractive ones.
Both men & women have sexual urges, but men rarely get demands for sex as women – this makes it harder for them to stay off sex & also puts them in a position to choose who they want to be with. Women are not more sexually disciplined than men; they only have a safer sexual indulgence than men.
Joy’s husband probably never thought that Joy needs sex; he’s probably been fooled into believing that she can suppress the urge & remain faithful to him for more than 2 years, despite men coming for her. That is unrealistic!
When I meet a woman, and she says he does not need sex, what I hear is “I do not like you” and I let her go. This is because I know about sex enough to understand that sexual urge recognizes no gender. If she is not having sex with me, then she is doing it with another man. That will not be good for my relationship, so it is better to end it before it starts.
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