Hey ,
The events in our lives often beat us down in ways that can cause us to approach others as if we have already been beaten.
I know I have screwed up more times than I can count I struggle with staying positive and upbeat. Yeah, I have a mantra that allows me to find my joy all throughout the day. However, there are times when my overblown sense of inadequacy shows up.
I question if I actually qualified to help you through your dark days. There are times that I find myself in the past. Looking at what might have been not what is now.
I shy away from people and fail time and time again to let people know that I am a coach and I want to help them through the pain they are experiencing. I wish that clients and those I do talk to would see how great their life is. Even in the depth of the valley they are in That summit is just within arms reach and there is one hell of a view waiting for them.
We all have our struggles and there are times you question a choice you have made. Yet I want to challenge you to stand tall. You are a great man. Yeah, society may not realize it yet but they will. The key for you is to keep standing tall. Your face may get wet with the spit that is flying from people who just wish they could be you.
You have moments in your life that you are able to be proud of. Your kids are always worthy of your pride. Yeah, they may be messing up from time to time, you may have messed up from time to time, but they are proof that you were worthy to be a dad.
The fact that you are reading this email shows that you want to be better. That puts you ahead of 90% of the other slobs out there who just sit on their couch and gripe about society. You are changing it.
So go out today with your chest out and head high because you are the man society needs.
If you would like to be free of the thoughts that keep you playing small so you can have a better connection with your wife and kids then sign up for a consult call where we can talk to each other and see how we can work together.
ps. I still have spots available for the Try Coaching event going on at 10 am Central time on Oct 14th If you are interested in getting coached by me for free then sign up!
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