Hey man!
So today wanted to point out that your suffering is a choice.
Now since I said that pay attention to all those thoughts you have in your head about your suffering and see why your mind is justifying it, because it is. You may find yourself actually getting a bit angry at the thought that your suffering is your choice.
I have a couple of men who love to get their hackles up when I mention their suffering is optional. That is because they hold their whole identity on that point of pain.
Maybe you were abused as a child, how are you using that abuse? Are you sitting around telling people that your dad would get drunk and throw Jarts at you or are you showing people how they can get past their pain and suffering?
If you want to keep your suffering to yourself then fine keep it. I have my own that I am processing I don't need anybody else's suffering.
This email is just an email to get you to think of what if...
...you let that pain just go? How would show up for the world?
...you changed the view of that circumstance? How lighter would you feel?
...stopped identifying yourself as a victim? where would you be in your journey?
You see the weight of a victim is heavy and a burden to only you. Nobody else can feel that weight. Nobody is going to offer the relief of that weight. The only person who can drop it and lighten their load is the person carrying it. They have to choose to offload it.
So do you want to stop carrying that burden of suffering with you? Would you like to see how glorious it is in the sun? I can help you step into a future completely as who you are.
Now if there is some past pain that you are holding on to, say you were abused in some way. I do suggest you find a therapist and let them help you sort that past out. This is their expertise. While I help you take that pain and suffering and go beyond. I help you step into who you are fly to the highest peaks in your world and learn to accept the valleys as needed. Because without the valleys you have no peaks.
See how coaching can help you by scheduling a free consult call.
Live Life Fully
Bryan Goodwin
ps.
Hey on October 14th at 10 am Central time I will be having a Live try coaching event if you are curious about getting coached and wonder how painful it will be, then go to relaxedmale.com/trycoaching
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