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It is the holiday season. the time is getting hectic As we run around buying last-minute gifts for our loved ones. Yet We often forget one person in our rush to show our love to those around us. We are busy handing out toys and bobbles to those around us when there is someone very important being left out again.

This is also the season where we look back and reflect on what we did in this last year. How close did you get to completing our goals? Would you have made it to your goal if you had tried? Did you try and if so What kept you from completing your goal?

What lies are you spreading about yourself that keep you from reaching your goals?

We often have 5 big lies that we tell ourselves as to why we don't try to reach our goals. We make a statement that we are going to do better in some aspect of our life and then…

Nothing

So tell me if you find yourself telling yourself one or more of these lies.

🛑 Lie #1

I will get to it after_______

We not only use this lie on our wives and girlfriends to get them off our backs but we also tell ourselves these stories. That way we don't have to face the fact that we are, again, not bettering ourselves. You want to wait until the time is right. Well, man, That is the lie. There is no Someday in the week. There never is a perfect day. The perfect or just right day to start something is right now.

❌ Lie #2 

We don’t have the money, finances are too tight

You don't have the money yet you find the coin to get that new item you wanted. You Could find the money for that newer car. You were bel to fund your hobby. 

There is a saying I use as an affirmation. I have plenty of money for everything I truly want. 

So why do you not truly want to better yourself?

🚫 Lie #3

Who would notice?

This lie is one that we often use when we are just looking for affirmations. We want someone to pat us on the back and say good job. Well, there is someone who will tell you that. They may have even told you good job more than once and you didn’t take their compliment. So the lie is that the most important person would notice. Your wife will also notice you standing a little taller. Your son will see you in a brighter light. Your daughter will see you as being calmer. However the most important person will notice and will be proud of you.

🙅‍♂️ Lie #4

It Would Be Nice

For some reason, we love to tell ourselves this lie and it keeps us playing small. So many people say this when they are comparing themselves to other people. This lie keeps us thinking as if we are a victim. It holds us back because it would be nice but I cant make it there. The only way you could tell is if you actually made it. If you made it then you wouldn’t be saying Wouldn’t it be nice.

🤥 Lie #5

It wasn’t meant for me

Says who? Says you? How do you know? You haven’t even made it to your destination yet. So how do you know your goal wasn’t meant to be? This is also a lie you are telling yourself on a regular basis. 

👺Lie #6

It’s too good to be true

This lie we mix up with scams. Yeah there times that an offer is too good to be true. That is when you get something for nothing. That is a scam. 

We also use this excuse because we actually don’t want to have to get uncomfortable and do the work for something that will actually pay out a reward. 

The Greatest Gift You Can Give

What if you gave a gift to one person and that gift not only changed the lives of that person but the lives of those around them? That would be one heck of a gift right? To give a simple gift that would resonate not only with that person and help them reach their dreams but to also help reach the dreams of those family and friends that are associated with them. 

That person who’s been neglected and hasn’t recieved a gift  from the person who matters most to them in their life is

What if you did give yourself a gift, and that gift transformed not only you but those you are closest too? Why would you  want to deny yourself the opportunity to better your finances. What if you started leaning into purpose and changing what is possible?

What would you do? What would you want to improve? What if you could give yourself the perfect Christmas gift that kept giving and changed your life and those around you. Showing everyone in your life what is actually possible. 

This perfect Christmas gift is available for you to give yourself. You can’t give it to other people because you have to want it. You have to want the change. You have to crave the betterment of your relationships. You have to be willing to do some work for the marriage that maybe on the rocks. 

This perfect Christmas gift is available for you. All you have to do is to know and believe you are worth it. 

I have a coaching program that will put you in to a better line of thinking. It will change how you approach the relationships you have. You will become the leader your kids are looking for. 

The price is normally $6,000 however I am making a one time discount to the first 5 people of 100% off. Yeah I’m waving the fee on this package. Once it is gone it is never going to return. It would be the best of the best gift to yourself to sign up.

By the end of this program you will be more in control of yourself emotionally. You will be more confident. You will be able to connect more confidently in your relationships. You will be able to be the husband you want to be the father you want to be the friends you want to be. You will be able to change your habits. You will feel more inconrol of yourself. You will feel less of the effect of those around you. 

Are you ready to have a year that will blow not only your mind but also the minds of those around you? If so reply to this message and let’s talk.

Your future is waiting for you to take and I would like to help you do that

Bryan Goodwin

the Relaxed Male

ps: The price for the package is my gift to you and your family. Remember once gone it is never showing itself ever again.

Merry Christmas to here’s to the best new year