A quick pause that can help
Feb 05, 2026 3:01 pm
Hi, .
I wanted to share one simple thought about marriage.
Most tension in marriage does not come from one big issue. It usually comes from how quickly we decide what something means, and how rarely we slow down long enough to check that assumption.
One small habit that helps is this: before reacting, pause long enough to ask, โWhat else could be true here?โ That question alone can lower defensiveness and create space for a better conversation.
This is the kind of reflection I share going forward through short blog posts and updates.
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