You likely know that one of the most critical factors in a successful marriage is effective communication. Many couples believe they are good at talking to each other, but true communication goes beyond just words—it’s about understanding, empathy, and active listening.

I want to emphasize that effective communication involves:

• Listening to understand, not just respond. It’s easy to jump to conclusions or react emotionally. Taking the time to fully understand your spouse’s perspective can transform conversations.

• Communicating expectations clearly. Many conflicts arise when expectations are unspoken or unclear. When couples share their expectations openly, they create a foundation of trust and respect.

• Building emotional safety. It’s important to create a space where both partners feel safe expressing their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or criticism.

By practicing these principles, you and your spouse can deepen your connection and work together as a team.