From breakdown to breakthrough
May 15, 2025 12:50 am
My client killed himself to keep his family and business alive.
For a year, I have been working with a client who was going through some serious health challenges.
So, when we began working together, he was emotionally drained and physically exhausted.
He’d spent years putting everyone else first - family, friends, team, even strangers.
And in the process, he forgot the one person who needed care the most: himself.
He ignored the signs. Smiled through burnout. Kept saying yes when his body screamed no.
But he didn’t know how.
After we started working together, I helped him understand:
1️⃣ From self-sacrifice to self-honor: His breakthrough moment came when he realized self-care isn't selfish - it's the foundation of sustainable service to others.
2️⃣ From external validation to internal compass: We worked on helping him recognize that his worth wasn't tied to how much he gave to others.
3️⃣ From compromise to boundaries: The hardest lesson - learning to protect his energy with the same dedication he protected others'.
What touched me most was how his transformation affected his family. His wife had been trying to tell him for months to take care of himself first. She saw the toll his self-neglect was taking before he could recognize it himself.
During our sessions, he shared how divine intervention seemed to guide him toward change. His aunt called out of the blue with one simple message: "Please make yourself a priority." A close friend and mentor showed up unexpectedly to remind him that his capability shouldn't become a burden.
The transformation has been remarkable. Today, he lives by a powerful mantra: "I am uncompromised."
He still serves others generously - but now from a place of wholeness rather than depletion. He's learned that being a light for others requires keeping his own flame burning bright.
His journey reminds me why I'm passionate about coaching: watching someone reclaim their power and prioritize their wellbeing is the greatest reward.
What small step could you take today toward being "uncompromised" in your own life?
Cheers,
Nikhil | founder of Bulletproof Teams
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