The lie behind “I should figure this out myself”

May 26, 2025 11:56 pm

You tell yourself you’re smart. Capable.

You’ve made it this far without help.


So when your job search stalls, you double down.

More tutorials. More self-study. More time spent trying to reverse-engineer what’s “working” for others.


You’re stuck—but quietly convinced you should be able to unstick yourself.


And that’s the trap.


Because deep down, asking for help feels like failure.

Like admitting you’re not enough.

Like confirming the fear that maybe… you’re not as sharp as you thought.


But here’s what no one says out loud:


The smartest people don’t DIY everything.

They don’t waste months piecing together free advice.

They don’t wait until they’re drowning to ask for a lifeline.


They invest early.

They collapse timelines.

They buy speed, clarity, and accountability—on purpose.


Because they’re not trying to prove they’re brilliant.

They’re trying to win.


So if you’ve been stuck in the cycle of “I should know this by now”…

If you’ve been treating mentorship like a luxury instead of a strategy…

If you’ve been holding off on help because you’re scared it confirms your worst fear…


Then let me reframe this for you:


Getting help isn’t a weakness.

It’s a professional edge.


It’s the difference between watching from the sidelines and playing to win.


You don’t need to earn mentorship.

You don’t need to wait until you’re desperate.


You just need to decide:

Are you optimizing for pride… or progress?


Is doing it alone your strength—or your excuse?


— Joseph



P.S.

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