Stop collecting reasons. Find the one that matters.
Jun 05, 2025 1:11 am
I spent an hour yesterday with a designer who had a list of 47 reasons why he should start posting content.
Build personal brand. Attract opportunities. Network with leaders. Showcase expertise. Get noticed by recruiters. Stand out from other candidates.
All logical.
All true.
All completely useless.
Because after six months of "planning," he still hadn't posted a single thing.
Here's what I told him: It's not about the quantity of reasons. It's about the quality of one reason.
Most people collect motivations like Pokemon cards.
They think more reasons equal more motivation. But that's backwards.
You need one reason so strong it pulls you forward even when everything else falls apart.
For him, it wasn't about building a brand or getting opportunities.
It was simpler: "I don't want to break another promise to myself."
That hit different.
Because he'd been breaking promises to himself for years. "I'll start posting next week." "I'll update my portfolio this weekend." "I'll reach out to three people tomorrow."
Each broken promise made the next one easier to break.
Until making promises to himself felt meaningless.
But within minutes of finding his real reason - the one that actually mattered to him - everything changed.
He committed to posting that same day. Before midnight.
Not because he had to. Because he finally had a reason worth keeping.
One quality reason beats 47 mediocre ones every time.
Think about whatever career move you've been putting off.
Updating your portfolio. Reaching out to that hiring manager. Applying for that stretch role. Having that salary conversation.
You probably have dozens of good reasons to do it.
But if you haven't done it yet, those reasons aren't working.
What's the one reason that would actually move you?
Maybe it's not about advancing your career.
Maybe it's about proving to yourself that you can follow through.
Maybe it's not about more money. Maybe it's about having work that doesn't drain your soul.
Maybe it's not about a better title. Maybe it's about setting an example for your kids.
The real reason might surprise you.
But once you find it, everything else becomes easier.
That designer posted at 11:47 PM. Simple thread about our conversation. No fancy graphics. No viral strategy.
Just one person keeping a promise to himself.
And that changes everything.
P.S. This is exactly the kind of clarity work we do in Career Creators. We help you cut through all the "shoulds" and find what actually drives you forward. If you're tired of having all the right reasons but no action to show for it, reply "Details" and I'll share how we help you stop planning and start moving.