The real reason you still feel behind

May 26, 2025 2:55 am

You see another post on LinkedIn.

Another “I’m thrilled to announce…” update.

Another shiny portfolio, another high-profile offer.


And suddenly, you shrink.

You close the tab.

You tell yourself, “I need to update my case studies again.”


You weren’t planning to, but now?

Now you feel behind.

Now you feel like your work isn’t “good enough.”


This is how imposter syndrome disguises itself as perfectionism.


You think you’re being strategic. But really?

You’re stalling.

You’re rewriting the same story, hoping this version will finally feel “safe enough” to share.


Here’s what’s actually going on:


You’re not comparing your work.

You’re comparing your worth.

You’re using other people’s wins as evidence of your inadequacy.


And it’s quietly destroying your confidence.


You hesitate to apply.

You obsess over micro-improvements.

You tell yourself: “Just one more polish… then I’ll be ready.”


But the truth is: You were ready five revisions ago.

You just didn’t feel ready.


This is the trap.


The more you delay, the more you believe you’re behind.

And the more you believe you’re behind, the more you delay.


And here’s the worst part—every time you hesitate, you reinforce a deeper belief:


“I’m not good enough to compete.”


That belief doesn’t just hurt your job search.

It shapes how you show up in interviews.

It leaks into your tone, your body language, your negotiation power.


So here’s your reminder:


You don’t need to be perfect. You need to be clear.

You don’t need every tool or title. You need a narrative that connects.

You don’t need to wait to feel worthy. You need to act in spite of the doubt.


You’re not falling behind. You’re falling for a lie.


So are you sharpening your portfolio—or sharpening your insecurity?


— Joseph



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