She called me the strictest mum... and I wore it like a badge of honor
Sep 08, 2025 6:20 pm
Hi ,
I need to share something vulnerable with you.
Two years ago, I got that phone call from my daughter's school. You know the one—the call no parent wants to receive.
"Your daughter was late again today. And she hasn't turned in her history assignment."
I stared at my phone in disbelief. This was my daughter, who used to excel in school, who never missed assignments, and who was always punctual. What had happened to her?
More calls followed. Plummeting grades. Missed deadlines. A bright, capable teenager who suddenly seemed to have lost all motivation.
I did what most parents do; I withdrew privileges. Grounded her. Had "serious talks" about responsibility.
She put up what I now recognize as fake compliance. Going through the motions while secretly resenting every boundary.
One day, she told me she and her friends had been comparing notes about their mums. Her conclusion? "Mom, you're by far the strictest."
Instead of backing down, I looked her in the eye and said, "I wear that title like a badge of honor."
But here's the thing: even my "strictest mum" approach wasn't working. This intelligent, strong-willed teenager kept reaching for her phone, kept getting distracted, and kept struggling.
That's when I realized: this wasn't a discipline problem. This was something entirely different.
I dove deep into research about teenage brains and technology. What I discovered changed everything, not just for my family, but for my entire coaching practice.
The strategies I implemented didn't just work; they transformed our relationship.
The breakthrough moment came when my daughter voluntarily came to me and said, "Mom, I want to focus on my final exams. Can you hold my phone until after they're over?"
She made that choice. She recognized that the phone was controlling her instead of the other way around.
Today, she has healthy digital habits. She controls her phone;not the reverse. And our relationship is stronger than ever.
Here's why I'm telling you this story:
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With love and solidarity,
Latifah Ajetunmobi
P.S. My daughter is now thriving academically and personally. When I asked her permission to share our story in this book, she said, "Mom, if it helps other families avoid what we went through, absolutely." The strategies in this book work—I'm living proof.
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