Good morning Stepmom Sister,

Wishing you a joy-filled weekend as we approach Christmas! 🌟 I hope it brings you moments of peace, warmth, and the embrace of those you love. I pray for you as you hold both grief and gratitude. While this is "supposed" to be the most wonderful time of the year, it can often feel the hardest especially given such deep losses.

In the midst of the hustle and bustle, let's remember the true reason for the season—seeking joy in the simple moments and finding comfort in our faith. 🙏

✨ As a stepmom, it's essential to focus on what we can control and leave the rest to Him. It doesn't make it easy, but by seeking JOY through Jesus we find the One who will forever love and care for us.

🌟 What You Can Control:

• Your reactions to the unexpected holiday chaos.
• The love and warmth you bring to your family.
• Your expectations. Do because you want to - not for an expected response.

🎁 What You Can't Control:

• Reindeer traffic on the way to holiday gatherings.
• The weather (even if you dream of a white Christmas).
• The perfect coordination of matching holiday sweaters.
• What the ex-wife does or says
• How extended family treats you and/or your spouse and kids (give yourself the gift of boundaries on this....)

In the spirit of seeking joy and finding solace in our faith, I'm here to offer support. I'm very focused and busy continuously creating content to educate, encourage and empower you.

Feel free to write back and share a struggle and/or a win this holiday season. Let's identify the pain patterns and take action to not carry them into the new year.

Stay tuned for an exciting class I'll be hosting in the new year, designed to empower and uplift stepmoms in their journey of faith and family. 🌈📚

Wishing you a blessed and joyous season!

Blessings,

Heather Hetchler, MA

Communication Consultant & Certified Life Coach

1-855-STEPPARENT

www.ReframingRelationships.com

In the spirit of seeking joy and finding solace in our faith, I'm here to offer support.

Click here to download my FREE guide to reframing the holidays

Book a free 20-minute call, and let's talk through your biggest struggles. Whether it's navigating family dynamics or finding peace amidst the holiday rush, your journey is unique, and I'm here to listen.