Communication is so HARD, !

We think people understand what we mean… but half the time they don’t. And when things get misunderstood? Drama, hurt feelings, and unnecessary arguments happen fast.

I learned this the hard way in high school.

I vented to a friend about someone in our group who was super hyper and honestly annoyed me. That friend repeated what I said—and boom 💥

Friendship tension I never meant to start.

Looking back, I wish I had done things differently.

Here’s what would’ve helped:

• Use “I” statements – instead of blaming, I should have focused on what I was feeling
• Practice empathy – I never once took the time to consider what the other girl was dealing with
• Don’t assume – I didn't even try to ask her questions about what was going on

And the hardest part to admit?

I didn’t show her the love of Christ.

God made her with strengths I didn’t have (she was super creative and an awesome multitasker), but instead of appreciating that, I let frustration win.

If you struggle with communication…

If you feel stuck in your head…

If sharing your faith feels awkward or scary…

You’re not alone.

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👉 What’s something you struggle to communicate about?

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👉 How are you trying to live out your faith with friends right now?

I’m cheering you on 💕

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