Juan Bendana

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You’re Focused on the Wrong Things

Most people spend most of their time focusing on the 1st list.

Here’s a list of things that don’t matter (that most people think do)


Getting rejected.

How smart you are.

The fears you hold on to.

Where you went to college.

What natural talents you have.

How many times you’ve failed.

What your parents think of you.

What your friends tell you do to.

The judgement of complete strangers.


Here’s a list of things that DO matter (that most don’t think about)


Relationships.

A strong mindset.

How resourceful you are.

Bringing a positive atitude.

How you treat other people.

How you handle challenges.

Your commitment to growth.

The authenticity you show up with.

Your level of commitment to YOUR goals.


Here’s the challenge.


Most people spend most of their time focusing on the 1st list…


And very little time on the 2nd.


Flip the script.

Change the narrative of your life.


And decide to focus on what DOES matter.


When you do,


Winning is inevitable.


Have an extraordinary week!


Your friend,


Juan Bendana

Keynote Speaker | Author of Confident By Choice

www.juanbendana.com

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