I really don't need his approval!

Hey ,May I tell you about Charli? She bought "Healing The Heart", a journal to help women overcome the wound of a father's absence or mistreatment, three days before Father's Day.Yeah, I'll admit that I knew something of her story. Charli was tired o...

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Jun 22, 2025
The Pain Stops Here. The Healing Starts Now.

,Enough.Enough of carrying his rejection like a stone in your chest. Enough of hearing his voice in your head telling you that you're not enough, not worthy, not lovable. Enough of that little girl inside you crying for a love that never came.You've...

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Jun 19, 2025
Two Soul Story Spaces just opened up

Dear ,Sometimes, the soul rearranges the plans.Two persons who had committed to the Soul Story Retreat (July 18–20) have had to release their spots. Which means two spaces are now available in what will be a life-changing weekend.If you've been watch...

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Jun 18, 2025
The gentle nudge your heart has been waiting for 💙

Hey ,Father’s Day stirred a lot, didn’t it?If your chest still feels heavy—or strangely numb—know this: nothing is “wrong” with you. You’re feeling the echo of an old wound that’s finally ready to close.I created Healing the Heart, a digital journal...

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Jun 18, 2025
When the Mirror Hurts: A Hidden Childhood Trauma

Dear , Yesterday I was invited to speak on 'Beyond The Headlines'. An evening news talk program on RJR public radio. The topic was skin bleaching. Now I want you to imagine this:A 9-year-old boy. Bathroom mirror. 6:30 AM.His small hands shake as he o...

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Jun 11, 2025
Stop living someone else's story

Dear ,You know that fire inside you that refuses to be extinguished?The one that whispers "There's more to life than this" even when everyone around you seems content with ordinary?That fire isn't lying to you .You weren't born to live someone else's...

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Jun 09, 2025
It's Time To Mother The Child You Once Were

Dear ,I know it’s June, and Father’s Day is looming — another reminder of the relationships that shaped us, or failed us.Before we move there, I want to hold space for the Mother Wound.Because healing is layered, and some wounds don’t heal in a neat,...

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Jun 08, 2025
They tried to break you. You’re still here.

,They wanted you small.Quiet. Grateful for scraps. Apologizing for taking up space.They wanted you to believe their version of who you are—worthless, damaged, too much, not enough.But Guess What? You’re still breathing.And that unsettles them more th...

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Jun 04, 2025