Natanong mo na rin ba sa sarili mo kung bakit yung mga goals mo sa sarili and sa relationship mo feels like parang ang hirap2x e achieve ?
Kaya nga comparison starts to enter.
And you begin to also have reasons why you remain the same.
Just like sa relationship, baka naisip mo rin na:
"Good thing kasi sa kanya her husband chose to do what is right."
"Ei mas madali kasi ang buhay nya kasi mas may pera sya compared to me."
"Sana kasi kasing strong nya ako na lumalaban pa rin despite everything and hindi bitter."
Now if these ever crossed your mind...
I need you to stop this one thing na nasabi ko na.
COMPARISON.
Why?
Kasi hindi lahat ng nalampasang pagsubok ng ibang families na feeling natin di nila napagdaanan ei alam natin.
Kahit nga ako hindi alam ng iba ang exact agony na pinagdaanan ko after my partner's betrayal back then.
I know I've been sharing about my story pero honestly, I've still kept those extremes to at least protect my partner.
Syempre, mahal ko ei. Love protects nga di ba?
What I'm trying to say is most of the time kasi, we compare ourselves to other people's achievements without really knowing the hardship they're going through or the challenges they've conquered.
Kaya today, I'm reminding you to stop comparing yourself to anyone.
If you need to compare, compare mo self mo sa OLD SELF mo.
That way, you'll keep growing.
Once you master this, you'll see more beauty sa buhay mo. :)
Anyway, I'm just wondering...
What's your greatest challenge when it comes to Healing After Cheating?
Just really wondering since I've never heard from you.
You know, gusto ko lang malaman if OK ka lang ba.
If naka move on ka na talaga.
If masaya ka na ba ngayon.
OR... If buo ka na or ang family nyo.
Thinking of you,
FJ Lapera
P.S. I do read every email reply. Listening mode ON. :)
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