Natanong mo na rin ba sa sarili mo kung bakit yung mga goals mo sa sarili and sa relationship mo feels like parang ang hirap2x e achieve ?
Kaya nga comparison starts to enter.
And you begin to also have reasons why you remain the same.
Just like sa relationship, baka naisip mo rin na:
"Good thing kasi sa kanya her husband chose to do what is right."
"Ei mas madali kasi ang buhay nya kasi mas may pera sya compared to me."
"Sana kasi kasing strong nya ako na lumalaban pa rin despite everything and hindi bitter."
Now if these ever crossed your mind...
I need you to stop this one thing na nasabi ko na.
COMPARISON.
Why?
Kasi hindi lahat ng nangyayari sa buhay nya at lahat ng nalampasan nyang pagsubok ei alam mo.
Kahit ako nga na despite me being very open to you ei about my life story through email ei may mga challenges pa rin akong nalampasan na hindi mo alam.
Most of the time kasi, we compare ourselves to people's achievements without really knowing the hardship they're going through or the challenges they've conquered.
Kaya today, I'm reminding you to stop comparing yourself to anyone.
Once you master avoiding this, you'll see more beauty sa buhay mo. :)
Ahemmm...
Anong #1 greatest challenge mo as of today sa relationship mo sis?
And OK ka lang ba?
Just really wondering since medyo matagal tagal na rin ang samahan natin and... ang pagbabasa mo ng emails ko.
And it's Monday!
Just here to say - START your week with a SMILE. :)
Thinking of you,
FJ Lapera
P.S. Sis, National Tooth Fairy Day nga pala today. Kagaya ng ngipin natin na need natin e brush daily mula ng tayo ay baby, wag na wag mong kalimutan alagaan ang self mo.
P.S.S. So naging challenge sa akin ang pag alaga ng teeth ko kasi hindi uso ang toothbrush sa akin noong bata pa ako. LOL. But I started loving it naman na.
Kaya mas nag level up na rin ang mga na overcome ko at breakthrough sa buhay.
Ikaw? Anong #1 Biggest Challenge mo sa relationship today?
I'm reading every email reply. Listening mode ON. :)
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