FJ by FJ Lapera

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You are not hard to love

Hi [First Name],



I used to ask myself:

“What did I do wrong?”

“Why wasn’t I enough?”

“Am I too much to love?”


It’s what betrayal does — it whispers lies that stick to your soul like glue.


But over time, I started to see those questions for what they were:

Wounds, not truth.


Because truth sounds like this:

“I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.” (Jeremiah 31:3)

That's why you need to remember this sis:


God’s love isn’t based on how “lovable” we are.

It’s not withdrawn when we’re a mess.

It doesn’t disappear when others walk away.


His love stays.


So if you’ve been made to feel like you’re too much… too emotional… too broken…


Let me say it clearly: You are not hard to love.


You are deeply loved, completely seen, and eternally wanted.


Don’t let their actions rewrite your identity.


You are still worthy, sis.


Always have been.


And... always will be.




Hugs today,

FJ "Loving you enough to keep cheering you on" Lapera













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