As a full time mom finding all the means to survive and to help my son overcome all his challenges out of the broken relationship...
While doing my best to earn a living to provide for us since di ko na pinaglaban ang financial support for my peace of mind...
I often feel drained.
And as I keep quiet, I noticed that all the more I feel worthless.
I'm feeling overwhelmed and not feeling the purpose for my life.
That's why even if I have my own share of challenges as a solo parent coz it's the route I chose after following God's instruction of celibacy...
I do my best to give time to cheer you on. :)
Kasi I would feel inspired whenever I hear success or inspiring stories not only from my students but also from all of my email subscribers kahit na hindi pa member ng Godly Builders Family.
Just like this email I noticed today.
Sabi nya...
"hi FJ.
good day.
i wish i can write to you everything what i'm going through, but i'm tired, tired of thinking, tired of overthinking, tired of everything.
also, i don't know where to start. my mind is so full of thoughts, i have so many worries too.
but your emails are giving me breaks from my tiredness.
kaya mag write back nalang ako to ask you na please keep the emails coming.
thank you for writing me emails again.
While I'm reading this, I felt crushed.
Why?
Kasi as I have found God's purpose for my life cheering Depressed Cheated Women, I felt like it's a great responsibility to be more active.
To be seen more.
To produce more value.
Kasi as a solo parent, I need to manage my time more.
Imagine sending your son everyday to school, babalikan during lunch time para pakainin at bihisan, stay at school in a bit para sabay na kayo pauwi and... back to grinding na naman sa printing business mo serving customers plus...
Iba pang gawain ng isang Nanay mula sa paglalaba, pagluluto, paglilinis, etc.
Tapos makakabasa ka daily ng updates, complaints or hinanakit ng mga Nanay na niloko ng asawa kagaya mo.
It's never easy.
Kailangan mo ng strong emotional and mental stamina plus healthy and sound spirit and will to still help best.
Maki carried away ka kasi talaga sa mga stories na mababasa mo.
Lalo na at very empathetic akong tao.
But again...
Your messages and responses always remind me how beautiful and rewarding is the value of service. :)
Here's the truth.
As I've noticed from my iwn self-development since I started counseling mula pa noong 2020...
The more I refresh others, the more I am refreshed.
And this is even biblical.
That's why I told my students inside our Healing After Cheating Academy (our newest home)...
that I'll be more active starting this August.
In fact, since we started our 3-in-1 LIVE Godly Builders Therapy monthly for the HAC Coaching Program composed of :
- The Godly Builder's Lesson
- The Godly Builder's Fellowship
- The Godly Builder's Interview ...
I've been more inspired to keep cheering them live.
I remember those LIVE lessons I've been doing back then that were actually paused dahil sa mga legal and deadly battles that I've been. (Kung napanood mo yung Inner Healing Blueprint, I'm sure alam mo ang mga naging battles ko)
Kaya naman recently, I've been convicted by the Lord more.
To be seen more and...
To inspire you more that Healing After Cheating is really just a beautiful season of your life and God's redirection for His breakthrough prepared for you.
Yung one day, masasabi mo na ang mga linyang...
"Thank Lord at pina experience mo sa akin ang betrayal.
Kung di ako niloko, di ko mararamdaman to ngayon at di ako magiging much better in all areas like before."
And dahil nga gusto kong mas maka inspire sayo sa healing journey mo just like your Virtual Nanay, Sister or BFF...
I'm convicted to engage with you more.
So starting tomorrow, every Sunday afternoon (as long as walang matamaan na urgent schedule), I'm planning to have the Healing After Cheating Advice LIVE Episodes for all of you.
I'm convicted that this 1 hour live through our page would help spread our Healing After Cheating Advocacy more.
This would be for a limited time only.
But yeah... mahaba habang bonding time pa rin if bibilangin ko yung number na pinapa commit sa akin ni Lord. lol
Kaya nga feeling pressured ako ei.
Kasi kapag si Lord na ang nangusap sa akin, I know it's going to be BIG but... a memorable act I could do for His service.
Now speaking of tomorrow...
I'm planning to do it through our Facebook page either 2pm or... 3pm.
Eto kasi yung time na medyo di pa busy sa printing studio ko kapag Sunday kasi we normally rest after the Sunday service pa.
And as what I've noticed, tong time na to rin hindi masyadong busy ang mga nanay sa kids.
But of course, I'm also wondering which is the best time for you.
Please help me engage with you more by choosing from these options below:
- Option 1: 2pm-3pm
- Option 2: 3pm- 4pm
And please REPLY to this email to let me know.
Also...
Tell me the biggest question na gusto mong bigyan ko ng LIVE ADVICE tomorrow afternoon.
Would appreciate your response to help and cheer you best.
To helping you heal fast,
FJ "Giving LIVE HAC Advice tomorrow" Lapera
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