Hi ,
I once thought I had to be fully healed before I could help anyone.
But somewhere along the way, I realized something powerful:
Sometimes, your in-process story is exactly what someone else needs to hear.
I've tested that throughout my Healing After Cheating Advocacy.
Kasi I've healed with my students.
Nakaka overwhelms nga yung naging support system din ng Godly Builders Fam the past years when I fought for my son's custody.
Minsan kasi pakiramdam ko napagod na rin ang family ko kakarinig ng stories ko and mga hanash ko sa buhay.
But the GB Fam?
They didn't.
Kasi alam nila ang pa ulit2x na triggers na nararanasan ng isang depressed, oppressed and feeling unloved woman and mom.
And that's why up to this day, I've looked up to all those women na naging part din ng healing journey ko.
Yung alam mong kahit di rin perfect ang relationship and Healing After Cheating journey mo pero may na iinspire and natutulungan ka pa lang mga babaeng niloko rin na kagaya mo.
And I treasure those moments. :)
And you know what sis?
There’s a verse that changed the way I saw my pain:
“They triumphed… by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.” (Revelation 12:11)
That's why today I'm reminding you that your story — yes, even the messy parts — has the power to encourage someone else.
Not because it’s perfect, but because it’s real.
Every step you take forward, no matter how shaky, is hope for someone still stuck.
Your healing isn’t just for you.
It’s for your child.
Your future.
Your sisters who think they’re the only ones going through this.
So keep going sis.
Keep healing.
Because your comeback may become someone else’s compass.
With so much love,
FJ "Hoping to inspire you" Lapera
P.S. Since you're still reading this, I bet di ka pa napapagod basahin ang mga hanash ko sa buhay. :) And that's why I hope may mga natutunan ka sa mga emails ko for you or at least... na inspire kita. :)
If ever yes, let me know naman kung ano pang gusto mong marinig sa akin.`
How can I help you best sis?
If I ever wave my magic wand right now and answer all your questions, what's the biggest thing you'd love to learn?
What's your greatest desire for your relationship?
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