Hi,
Years ago, when I was asked who my friends were, I'd mentioned people who I talked with Everyday..
Then, the yardstick for friendship was FREQUENCY IN COMMUNICATION.
I thought talking everyday makes us friends.
I also thought that just because you helped me makes us friends..
Little did I know then..
Thank God I know more now .
In True Friendship, Value must be exchanged..
Not just money please..
VALUE....
If you are in a friendship, ask yourself this; what am I gaining from this person and what is this person gaining from me?
What Value is being exchanged?
It's beyond the frequency of your communication, is it effective?
If all you do with your friends is gist, then you are yet to have friends...
If all you do with your friends is talk about the opposite sex, then you are yet to have friends..
VALUE MUST BE EXCHANGED..
Finally, Understand the place of people in your life.
It's okay to call someone your roommate, neighbor, acquaintance, classmate, schoolmate or church member .
It's okay.....
It's not everyone that is your friend so stop introducing everyone as your friend..
Great People don't have many friends..
They have few friends as they know that Friends Influence...
Who are your friends?
Remember, WHAT'S CIRCLING AROUND YOU DEPENDS ON WHAT CIRCLE YOU ARE..
Have a productive week...
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