Hey You,

For a long time, I thought forgiveness meant letting someone back in.

I thought it meant "making peace" with the person who hurt me so that life could go back to normal.

But I've learned that you can't have a healthy relationship with someone who is committed to your suffocation.

This week on the podcast, I sat down with one of my favorite people, Loralin Engel, to talk about a topic that is as messy as it is beautiful: How to Forgive the Unforgivable.

Loralin spent decades "enduring" her mother—navigating a cycle of guilt, pity-seeking, and emotional drainage.

It took a string of personal tragedies for her to finally have the emotional explosion that led to her awakening.

How to Forgive the Unforgivable and Reclaim Your Peace

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We dive into:

• The Military Upbringing: What happens when "strict authority" begins to belittle your soul.
• The Escaping Point: Why Loralin had to run away at 18 just to find room to breathe.
• The Forgiveness Breakthrough: Why choosing to forgive is a soul agreement that doesn't require you to maintain a relationship.
• The Higher Self vs. The Ego: How to distinguish between the ego’s repetitive, loud stories and the quiet, single-sentence guidance of your highest self.

If you are struggling to separate forgiveness from reconciliation, or if you feel like you are still "enduring" a situation that drains you, this episode is for you.

It’s time to stop holding onto the weight that was never yours to carry.

Much Love,

Blue Flower

Navigating these breakthroughs on your own can feel incredibly isolating. If you want a safe container to process these kinds of shifts alongside people who actually "get it," I’d love to have you in the Deep Blue Wave Community. You can grab a 2-week free trial right here and join us for our next live session. You don't have to find your peace alone.

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