Hey hey, ,

Day 7.

By now you've *probably* hit a few potholes.

Most likely they aren't so much action-related potholes as mindset ones.

Making more offers creates more impact... but it also creates MORE visibility and that's more than enough to cause all the problems, but mostly doubt.

So, today we have a quick reset.

First: No, you are NOT bothering anyone. You are not talking too much. You are not too loud. They don't hate you. They aren't thinking you're a terrible person.

Read it again.

And yeah, maybe there are people in your world that are seeing more of you as you are saying more. That was the whole point, so that's GOOD.

Is it scary? Yes.

The more we are seen the more chance there is for someone to tell us they don't like what they're seeing... I get it. More visible also equals more vulnerable.

It's scary, and it's also the WHOLE point.

Second: Follow the DATA.

Your brain may well be screaming that you're being too much, but it's wrong. This is just your brain is really just overreacting to change - and that's normal. It's okay.

When our brains overreact one of the simplest ways to settle it all back down is with DATA.

The odds are that no one has *actually* said they don't like you and what you're doing at this point.

Worst case, one person was like 'shhhhh, you're too loud' and probably, they aren't someone who you'd be selling to anyway, so whatever... Uncle Bob doesn't need what you have anyway, all good.

Instead... the odds are that, actually, at least one person has been like 'huh, I didn't know you did that' or 'ohhh, I have to share this' or 'hmmm... that's interesting'.

And THAT is evidence.

The offers you make, the more EVIDENCE you will create.

The more people will respond and your brain will start to see TWO key things: first, that talking more isn't hurting you and second, that talking more actually is creating INTEREST and maybe even INCOME already.

Third: Recommit and remember.

Yes, again. Sometimes (here too) it's a DAILY thing. It's hard to do new stuff - scary stuff. And it's okay to have to sit down and think 'okay, I'm going to do this again today. This is still what I want to do' and remind yourself that you're in it for a reason.

Recommit to your plan.

Then, remember WHY you are doing this.

And from there, go DO the things.

Fourth: Put the Q&A for next week on your calendar if it's not already there: Monday, 5/15, 2:30 pm EST. Here's the Zoom link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89436306637?pwd=VUJlU3NrWW8rSnNZUlFmY1BnenB6UT09

This is where we will talk about ALL the things.

Bring your wins, your worries, your hold ups, your stuck parts, your questions... we're going to talk through it all together.

BUT.

If you have a question now and need help today?

DO NOT WAIT another week.

Just hit reply. That's why I'm here.

The next email will hit your inbox on THURSDAY this week.

Until then, KEEP GOING, you've GOT this!

Much love,

Sara