When I woke up this morning, I had to visit the restroom again. Why? I've been sick since yesterday. I still am but I'm getting better gradually. 

But who am I not to write to you?

Anyway, back to our topic

*Clears throat*

At the risk of sounding like an old millennial, I've discovered that the key to enjoying your life is - Getting out of your Comfort Zone.

I'm not joking. It may seem difficult at first but trust me, the quality of your life improves when you start doing the things you thought you couldn't do. 

For me, it was when I started talking to people intentionally. 

Now this may seem easy to you, but to me, it was a lot because I went from being a shy lady to talking to people? What? Murder me. 

But you know what I learnt on the journey?

Stepping out of your Comfort zone is not as bad as you think. Those things you think you can't do are very much possible. 

And if you fail at first, what's the worst that could happen? Someone will make a nasty comment? Then what? 

You might feel bad or sad at first but you can always dust off your butt, pick yourself up and start again or continue from where you stopped. 

After my last birthday, I became more aware of the passage of time. The fact that one day, u won't be alive anymore, so whatever it is I want to try, I have to do it now. 

For some of the things, na money dey stop me. And also, remember the roller coaster story?

I might not be able to do all that I want, but I will make sure I do the most and best I can. 

But the Kingdom will always come first.

That's why I'm going to need you to get onboard with living your life based on the terms that will make you go all out for things you want to try, not on the terms of society or culture, step out of that zone and unapologetically go for what you want. 

New favorite word: UNAPOLOGETICALLY

Do you know why?

You steer the ship. You have the manual with you. You know what you want. 

Anyways, the point of today's Mail is… UNAPOLOGETICALLY START DOING THINGS THAT YOU'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO. STOP SITTING RIGHT ON IT. 

Enjoy your best day yet. 

Jesutofunmi.