Vibrant Imaginative People
June 2024, Issue No.28
Your VIP Newsletter from Soulla's Writing Room
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Hello my VIP and welcome to your June newsletter!
I have taken most of June to relax, work on the edits of an exciting co-author client project and to plan and consider what I would like my next six months of the year to look and feel like.
How are you? No, really, tell me... how are things with you? I found that I was beginning to say everything was great but not feeling great and not focusing on the things that brought me joy and peace and a sense of reward and purpose.
And I realised that I had been quite unconsciously downshifting and I have probably been doing that for the past two years but never realised there was a word for it; that longing to be free of responsibility, engage in less drama, seek relaxation and peace and to look for what brings me the most happiness vs the most money. I think I have found a way to shine without the stress, the fear and the huge expectations I was putting on myself.
Downshifting is all about deciding to cut back on work and the constant chase for more stuff, and instead focusing on what really matters. Since I stopped rushing around all the time, my stress levels have really dropped. Now, I have more space for self-care, exercise, and fun hobbies. Life just feels healthier and happier. Working fewer hours means I’ve finally found a good balance between my portfolio writing career and personal life, giving me more quality time with my mum and sisters, my grown boys and my granddaughter as well as my friends, peers and associates.
Simplifying things has made me more mindful, appreciating the little things and finding joy in everyday moments. Surprisingly, downshifting has even helped me get a better handle on my finances, managing my money more wisely and living a more satisfying, sustainable life.
Downshifting isn’t about ditching ambition or success; it's about redefining what success means to you. For me, it’s been a journey of finding true fulfilment and realising that sometimes, less really is more. If you're feeling overwhelmed by life's demands, think about taking a step back. Embrace the slower pace and enjoy the simple things – you might just find a more meaningful life waiting for you.
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Shine Your Light Without Fear
Shining and sharing my light without fear has been one of the most liberating experiences of my life. It’s about embracing who I am, unapologetically, and letting my true self shine through in everything I do. The feeling is indescribable – a mix of joy, confidence, and inner peace. I no longer hold back, like I used to, procrastinating and wondering what people will think, or worry about judgement; instead, I focus on the positive impact my authenticity is having on those around me.
This newfound freedom has woken me up from a slumber, I didn't realise I was living in, and filled my life with a profound sense of purpose and happiness, making every moment feel more vibrant and meaningful. I like it. I like it a lot and I have been made more conscious of it in recent months with all the lovely comments and messages I get: Inspiring one woman to take a leap of faith, encouraging another to give baking and cake decorating a try, motivating a timid, aspiring writer to write the story she has always wanted... your stories are wonderful and I am so glad to be part of your journeys.
And if you're looking to be more creative why not read my feature article in April's edition of Elysium Magazine - 6 Ways to be More Creative
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A Weekend of Friendship, Art and Reconnecting
At the beginning of June I spent the weekend with my dear friend in Markyate, Bedfordshire and it was like a breath of fresh air. We reconnected over long, rambling conversations, reminiscing about old times and sharing our latest adventures.
We visited a local art fair, Art on The Common, in the village of Harpenden, organised in conjunction with Cancer Research UK. We mooched about, browsing the art projects, which turned out to be incredibly relaxing and inspiring. Looking at all the paintings, drawings, sculptures, ceramics and jewellery, on display together, not only sparked our creativity but also brought us a real sense of calm and joy. I felt really lucky and blessed.
The sun was shining, everyone seemed to be walking around with a smile on their faces, the young, the old, and there was no rushing around. The combination of heartfelt chats and the soothing process of being immersed in the art-world for an afternoon made the weekend truly special, leaving us both feeling rejuvenated and more connected than ever. Absolute bliss!
How do you like to spend your time with friends? Drinking tea? Playing your favourite board game? Snuggling in front of the TV to binge watch a new series? Rambling across open fields? Let me know!
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People, Friends and Kindred Spirits
Just before I sign off I wanted to say a big thank you to you for reading this newsletter and all those which have come before. I am honoured to have gotten to know so many of you just that little bit better through your kind and thoughtful messages and shared stories. You are my kind of people; friends and kindred spirits. You are the backbone of my community here: my beautiful Vibrant Imaginative People. THANK YOU
See you again on July 25th and if you're getting ready for your summer holidays have a wonderful time... drink lots, protect your skin and enjoy every moment of the sunshine.
Lots of love, Soulla x
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