From Style to Self‑Love: Men’s Guide to a Better Week

Jan 24, 2026 11:30 pm

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What’s up, beautiful friend. What’s up, NubianNewYorkers?


Wherever you are right now, I hope you’re warm, dry, and not panic-buying bread like it’s the apocalypse starring carbs. Here in the U.S., we’re bracing for a major snowstorm—which means two inches of snow, 400 news alerts, and at least one guy on TV screaming “historic.”


Drop a note in the box at the bottom and tell me where you are. Snowed in? Sunburned? Living through something even weirder? I want the headline from your world.


As January limps toward the exit, it honestly feels like we’re trapped in a low-budget sci-fi movie—no clear plot, questionable leadership, but incredible special effects. Still, in between the chaos, there are real miracles happening every day: beauty, connection, laughter, and that one perfect song that hits at exactly the right moment. Try not to miss those.


This newsletter exists for one simple reason: to give you a break. From the noise, the madness, and whatever group chat is stressing you out today. Read it all at once like dessert, or nibble at it like leftover pizza—no judgment. And seriously, tell me what you like, what you don’t, and what you want more of in the little box below. I’m listening, and I’ll put it in the next one just for you.


Thanks for letting us steal a few minutes of your day.

It means more than you think.


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🎥 Men's Style in Earth Tones #styleshorts

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🎥 Hottest Ice Bath I ever saw

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🎥 How to do SEATED LEG RAISES #fitnessshorts

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🔥 Core-Focused Variations If you lean back slightly and keep tension, trainers may also call them: Seated Core Raises Bench Ab Raises...


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Calm and okay vs stressed and irritated

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Every day, people take us for granted—bosses, coworkers, friends, family, even lovers. That’s on them. But we should also notice how we take ourselves for granted—and stop.



Small ways people take themselves for granted:



Ignoring their own needs


Talking to themselves harshly


Saying yes when they mean no


Skipping rest, food, or water


Staying silent to keep peace


Downplaying their achievements


Accepting disrespect


Rushing through life on autopilot


Not celebrating small wins


Waiting for others to validate them


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Small daily habits that reinforce self-love:



Speak to yourself kindly—even silently


Eat, hydrate, and rest on purpose


Pause and breathe before reacting


Say no without over-explaining


Acknowledge one thing you did well today


Keep one small promise to yourself


Set one simple boundary


Move your body, even briefly


Give yourself credit—out loud


End the day with gratitude for yourself

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🎥 Physique - See A Strong Muscular Back

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🎥 Handsome Men Caught in the Moment

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Confidence.


Style....


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Celebrate Black excellence, strength, and unity this February.

Wear African-style and African-print clothing as a symbol of pride.

Our history cannot be erased.

Stand together. Wear your culture.


February’s hottest movement isn’t just fashion—it’s culture.

African prints and African-inspired styles are taking over Black History Month as the ultimate statement of pride, unity, and excellence.


While Trump and his allies try to diminish Black History Month, we’re setting trends they can’t touch. This is more than a look—it’s a message. Style what you already have or level up your wardrobe with MORE right here:

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🎥 FLIES - proper form

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🎥 Pull-Ups : proper form #fitnessshort

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Pride Isn’t a Brand. It’s a Responsibility.

We are shaped by the history of the LGBTQ+ community in New York City—and by the responsibility that history places on leadership today.

This is an awareness campaign exposing False Pride: the widening gap between rainbow branding and real, year-round support for LGBTQ+ people—especially living artists, culture-makers, and innovators.

READ MORE AND SHARE AT: https://www.falsepride.online/


🎥 Squats, Lunges - how to get stronger legs, a better butt

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🎥 How Artists Can Be Rich & Famous TODAY! #braverywins

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🎥 STAY WOKE!

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Malcolm X


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It's not about hating anyone..It's about staying aware and educated about what is going on.


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#blacklivesmatter


#staywoke


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🗒️ NubianNewYorkers - Jan-Candy.. January 2026 Man-Candy! - Chocolate and Mocha Treats

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🗒️ Must-Watch Gay Short Films for Every Cinema Fan - NubianNewYorkers

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 Hey NubianNewYorkers!


 How's it going?


You know, it's pretty awesome when we find movies with characters who are just like us, right?


 But man, it shouldn't be so hard to find cool stories about gay characters—seriously, what's up with that?


 Well, guess what?


I've got your back!


Check out these awesome short films about gay characters.


 Watch 'em, pick your faves, and then do us a solid: share this with your best pals so they can enjoy them too!


   


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🗒️ How To Keep Your Black or Brown Face & Body, Handsome & Healthy This Winter - APPEARANCE - NubianNewYorkers

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 What's up NubianNewYorkers?


Alright, listen up, fam, let's have a real talk.


Winter is right around the corner, and we gotta have a meeting about this because I can't have my people out here looking crazy.


 (click any pic for expanded suggestions)  The cold weather is basically a hater, and its main goal is to make you look ashy and dry.


It's like the world is trying to turn you into a dusty statue, and we are not having any of that this year.


It's time to level up, so your skin is glowing, your hair is healthy, and your style is on point, even if it feels like the arctic outside.First up, let's handle that skin.


 You know what I’m talking about—that dry, tight feeling when the wind hits your face.


We're putting an end to that....


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🗒️ GAY MOVIE SHORTS - Mini-Movies Serving Queer Realness - NubianNewYorkers

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 Listen up, beautiful people!


 You already know we care about you here at NubianNewYorkers — we’ve been together longer than your favorite Netflix show that got canceled too soon.


 Now, let’s be real: when it comes to entertainment, there’s barely anything about folks like us.


It’s like we’re the family’s weird cousins — smarter, cooler, funnier, more fabulous — but somehow not invited to Thanksgiving dinner!


We’ve got brains, style, imagination, and hearts bigger than a Golden Retriever in a Disney movie.


Yet the mainstream still acts like we’re invisible.


 So guess what?


We made our own party!


 Check out these gay movie shorts — they’re funny, they’re cute, they’ll make you want to text your crush.


Watch them, laugh, cry a little, and drop your thoughts in the comments....


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🗒️ NubianNewYorkers - From Bored to Busy: Smart Things to Do While You Wait in Line

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 If


you're anything like me, you’ve spent at least 20% of your life


standing in a line, sitting in a waiting room, or staring down the


blinking cursor of doom at the DMV.


Waiting is the universe’s way of


reminding us that patience is overrated.


But


fear not, my fellow time-hostages!...


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