Why You Find Yourself In The Same Misery Over and Over Again

Jun 06, 2023 2:23 pm


Dear ,


Do you find yourself in the same toxic relationships, people taking you for granted all the time, cycles where you are not making enough money all the time, in family dramas over and over again?


One, It's because you don't think you have the power to choose what comes into your life. You think you can't say no or you don't have a choice so you take whatever is given.


You meet a new man and just because he says he loves you and is good looking you jump into it.


Even in terms of jobs you don't take time to analyze if it serves you and if it gives worth of your value.


Don't just take shallow friendships and half baked things in life. They don't know your value as much as you know yourself.



Two, you probably don't improve your skills. Take courses online to improve your skills and therefore get into better opportunities.


In terms of relationships, when you get out of one, take time to improve on yourself, get a relationship coach. You remain stuck because you are not upgrading yourself beyond that level.



You don't look beyond the surface. When you are getting into a relationship or a job what happens five years later ? What's the long-term goal and does the situation match with yours?


Take time to decide, this is your life. Don't hurry just because people are rushing you. Take time to decide things so you do not find yourself in the same situation again and again.



Learn the lessons. If something is challenging, if it's hurting, learn from it so you can respond better next time , so you will not repeat the same thing in the future.



Lastly seek professional help. Don't go through the cycle of pain over and over again. Seek support through therapy, coaching etc. Upgrade yourself so you can attract better in all areas.


PS: We still have a few personal coaching spots for the month of June. Book your spot now before they fill up.


Best Regards.

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