, are you one of the women who tend to attract men with narcissistic personality disorders?

Not to worry, because this email will shed some light for you.

Recently, I have received questions about dating toxic partners and people who exhibit narcissistic personality disorders. While this is a topic I have shared a lot before; I would like to remind us because human beings forget.

It shouldn’t be a surprise to you to understand that narcissists are attracted to strong, self-assured women.

Women who will make them look good. The fact that they have an inflated sense of importance, their goal is to be seen as the best.

However, you could also be someone who has people pleasing tendencies or even have narcissistic traits yourself because those are the two kinds of people narcissists are attracted to.

I have shared before how we easily we can attract what is familiar to us or what we haven’t repaired.

, you may be asking yourself, Why do I keep attracting these kind of partners?

Though it may hurt, let’s be honest

One, you are too nice. Someone can step on your toe and you take the pain instead of asking the person to take their foot off your toe. You want to see good in people.

You are too nice because you want people to be nice to you. However, that’s not usually the case; people will not be nice to you just because you have chosen to be nice to them.

You are a people pleaser. People pleasers attract people users. If you want to make another happy at your expense, you are a people pleaser and will attract narcissists.

Pleasing them makes them feel they have control and their ego is satisfied.

You are an empath. People who are able to feel other people’s emotions. For this reason, narcissists can easily manipulate and control empaths which makes them a good target.

As an Empath, you need to have boundaries. Your emotions are first important, then the emotions of other people. You are able to meet people where they are emotionally but you also need to have boundaries.

Narcissists prey and look for people who will make them feel good and who will validate their feelings. If you are that person that encourages such and put people higher, if you like praising people, narcissists will appreciate such a character as prey.

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Talk soon.