Take the sting out of intrusive thoughts? Mental Health Tip 7
Feb 16, 2024 8:55 pm
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I've also been thinking about mental health a lot lately with various family members going through their own challenges.
My adult daughter shared an insight with me, that I found very helpful to reframe struggles with mental health.
Scroll down and let me know what you think.
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How to take the power out of intrusive thoughts.
Mental health struggles are no fun. They seem to often ebb and flow throughout life, needing constant attention.
Much like exercise or healthy eating, handling depression or anxiety issues can be a lifetime venture, not something cured in a single therapy session.
So, it's no wonder that sufferers often wish the intrusive issues would just go away.
In the words of my 9-year-old, "Why can't my anxiety just go away and never come back. Why do I have to have it?"
This often results in antagonist feelings toward the condition and its intrusive thoughts.
It turns out that for some, this avoidance and antagonism can actually make things worse. Many train themselves to use multiple methods to pushing these thoughts away, doing their best to remove them.
For some, though, a new-ish method called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) might provide a different perspective.
The idea is to accept the intrusive thoughts or other parts of mental health as something that exists in your life without assigning a lot of negative emotion to it and trying to get rid of it.
You might want to do a little research and see if this idea speaks to you.
Here are a simple exercises to try:
- Practice "cognitive defusion" by observing your thoughts rather than attaching to them. Imagine your thoughts as passing clouds or leaves on a stream, acknowledging their presence without getting entangled in them.
- Give your thoughts funny voices or repeat them rapidly for a minute. This helps create distance between you and your thoughts, making it easier to let them come and go without becoming overwhelmed.
- When you notice a distressing thought arising, mentally label it by saying, "I am having the thought that..." For example, "I am having the thought that I will fail." This helps create space between you and your thoughts.
There are many other ideas out there. The simple idea that depression isn't something horrible I need to avoid was helpful to me. To that, I added the concept of it strengthening me.
The harder it gets, the more I'm able to train and toughen my mental muscles. Much like a weight lifter who endures and pushes through the pain and works to lift heavy weights. I am doing the same thing in my mind. And each time I'm successful, I get a little stronger.
Hopefully, something in my rambling there is helpful to you or someone you care about.
All the best this week!
- Misty :)
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