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So I had been upset with my 10-year-old for not managing the situation with his little sister, so much that she was yelling at the top of her voice.

Later that afternoon he asked if I had a minute to talk, and I quickly said, sure dear.

Him: I think the idea of taking sides with Mami every time she yells is not a great one. She's taking advantage of it and yelling unnecessarily because she knows you'll ask us to indulge her."

Me: Oh really? What better way do you think we can deal with this?

Him: Well, you never used to allow me to yell at the nanny when I was that age, can you apply the same with her too?

Me: 😄Oh really...You are right. I'll see the best way to teach her this 

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Dear parents,how do you repair the rupture in your relationship with your child? Are you the parent who is always right? Or do you own up and apologise when you are wrong?

Your ability to accept your wrong helps your child build trust in his own perspective. It communicates that you can be wrong too.

Hence they'll feel that you have the same struggles and that perfection isn't the goal. 

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