"My teacher called me an 'Olodo' in primary school...
My Chess COACH told me I was gifted and I believed him"
Tunde Onakoya.
These are the words of two different adults who had the ears and an opportunity to also have the heart of this child. One focused on his weakness and judged him based on standardized test and performance .
Another focused on his strength and empowered
him to draw out from the rivers of living waters in his belle!!! Ayayaya...His COACH , knew if he believed , the young man will believe, and so he affirmed him and called a name - GIFTED
As I wrote in my book , "Bedtime Stories for Champions " One thing children need as much as their talent and interest is atleast one parent or signification adult who believes in a dream not yet dreamt ,no matter how little it may seem."
All these happened years ago, but here is Tunde Onakoya ,the Chess Master, soon to be an official Guinness book of record champion , the one who has decided to change the destinies of many kids from the slums, who have probably been called 'olodos' like he was called ,choosing to tell them , " You are gifted." Like his coach once told him.
He never forgot what he was told by two adults who mattered ,and your child won't forget either.
My name is Marybeth Chima, I'm the Matron, (mentor and coach) of the Mastermind Circle ,a peer mentorship and accountability group for 6-14 year olds and my greatest joy is making young children find , believe and harness the gift within.
I'm the transformational Coach your child needs in their foundation years, a time when their minds are set and confidence and Self-awareness is sown,and my job is to help your child build a solid foundation.
The next cohort of the Mastermind Circle begins in September, book a slot for you child today .
See details on how to register below;
Cheers to your parenting success.
Marybeth Chima
Child Support & Motivation Expert
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