THE EXPLORING SHAME SERIES OF TALKS
Juliet Grayson and William Ayot talk about Toxic Shame and Healthy Shame, and the freeze response associated with shame (9 minutes). This is a part of the Hidden Face of Shame (a 75 minute webinar recording).
We hope you enjoy it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fVW8b_RrZdM
“Most of us who have toxic shame don’t even know it is there. For those of us who have been shame-bound –and grown up in shame – it is almost impossible to see it. It's a bit like a fish swimming in water. It doesn't know the medium wherein it lives.”
William Ayot
If you would like to learn more about shame, Juliet and William are creating an ever-growing data bank of talks. To access them go to http://jandw.thinkific.com/ and create an account. You can then see them all and choose what to listen to. Some are free of charge, and some are available for purchase. Most of these talks have a free 'preview'. Most are video & audio - although one is audio only (the Negotiation podcast which is free).
THE EXPLORING SHAME SERIES
IS ON SPECIAL OFFER UNTIL THE END OF THE MONTH
Currently on offer for £10 each (usual price £15), or
£50 for the whole series (usual price £75)
Shame is an endemic issue that is often not recognised.
William Ayot and Juliet Grayson drill down into various issues around the topic of shame. These recordings are for therapists and the general public.
You can choose to listen to just one, or buy all of them as a package.
1) The Hidden Face of Shame (75 mins)
2) The Engines of Shame (75 mins)
3) Shame, Trauma and Abuse (80 mins)
4) Shame and Relationships (80 mins)
5) Shame and Betrayal (85 mins)
6) Treating Shame, Tools and Techniques (90 mins)
7) Shame: Q and A
“Your personal experiences showed me I am not alone”
“An incredibly well presented,
thoughtful exploration of a difficult subject”
“You are extraordinary in your ordinariness. Thankyou.”
“Highly recommended”
RELEVANT WORKSHOPS
WORKING WITH SHAME: With Sue Parker Hall.
This is an online – live (not recorded) – workshop on Working With Shame
DATE: Friday 9th July 2021 £115
OR Saturday 16th October 2021 £99 if booked by August 16th, £107 if booked by September 16th, £115 Full Price
OR Sunday 5th December 2021 £99 if booked by October 5th, £107 if booked by November 5th, £115 Full Price
ANGER RAGE AND RELATIONSHIP
Anger is so connected to shame issues that we have also organised these workshops. This is online – live (not recorded)
DATE: Sat 12th June and Sun 13th June 2021 £235
OR Fri 3rd & Sat 4th September 2021 £199 if booked by July 3rd, £215 if booked by August 3rd, £235 Full Price
TIMES: 9.15 log on, for a prompt 9.30 start (BST) until 4.30 (BST) each day.
These are UK times. There will be breaks during the day.
LOCATION: Online
CPD: This course will give you 12 hours of CPD
CONTENT: 2 day training
Since shame usually starts in childhood - I am mentioning these 2 workshops too.
TEENS!
UNDERSTANDING TEENAGERS AND HOW TO SUPPORT THEM THROUGH ADOLESCENCE
Date: Monday 28 and Tuesday 29 June 2021
Where: Online
Times: 10.00am – 4.00pm BST
Cost: £165 full price.
OR
Date: Sat 2 & Sun 3 October 2021
Where: Online
Times: 11 – 5.00pm BST
Cost: £129 if booked by 2nd August. £145 if booked between 3rd August and 2nd September. £165 full price.
The aim of this workshop is to understand how today’s teenagers experience their world, how to talk to them in a way that allows them to open up, and how to give them the tools they need to safely cross the bridge from childhood to adulthood. The topics we will cover include:
- The changes that occur during adolescence
- Handling emotions – yours and theirs
- How to encourage responsible independence
- Communicating without conflict
- Dealing with the big issues – sex, drugs and alcohol
- For therapists counsellors and anyone who wants to understand teens better.
- For adults working with boys and girls from puberty to 17
BOYS!
UNDERSTANDING WHERE BOYS ARE COMING FROM, HOW TO TALK TO THEM AND HOW TO MOTIVATE THEM
Date: Monday 5th July
Where: Online
Times: 10.00am – 4.00pm BST
Cost: £89 full price.
OR
Date: Sat 9 Oct 2021
Where: Online
Times: 11.00am – 5.00pm BST
Cost: £59 if booked by 9th August, £75 if booked between 10th August and 9th September, £89 full price.
An online workshop -1 day - for youth workers, therapists or anyone who wants to understand boys better.
This workshop explores the characteristics of boys, their particular needs and challenges, and what adults can do (and not do) to enable them to flourish.
We will cover:
- What makes boys tick?
- Working with boys’ energy
- Boundaries and cooperation
- Expressing emotions
- Understanding male pride
- Laying foundations for manhood
- This course is about boys aged 2 – 10 years.
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