The tragic truth in relation to "confidence"
May 17, 2024 12:05 pm
Goodmorning - let's dive into confidence
We have 3 general seasons
The victim -> The survivor -> And thriving
Confidence in my terms = the quality behind one's psychology and internal relationship with the minds 'constant' chatter
When one is a victim, they say things like
Why me
I can't believe this is happening
I can never catch a break
It's them VS. me
Weak psychology. Lacking confidence.
The survivor is like
I have to do this, then this, then this, busy busy busy
The survivor turns what could be enjoyable into work
The survivor tends to be rushing around, never having enough time
All sprouting from a lack of clarity, which turns into a lack of confidence
So on some levels, you need confidence behind your psychology
But when you are truly thriving...
Confidence is so innate, so natural, as you are ALIGNED
Confidence is not something you get
Confidence is a BYPRODUCT of living a life in ALIGNMENT
You can't chase it
You can't force thriving
But you can deeply see how corrupt certain ways of living are
Always, from day to night, being stuck in selfish self-centered thought...
That's an absolute lack of confidence
As TRUE confidence only thinks when it's absolutely necessary
As confidence implies that "you got this"
Therefore why would confidence worry, stress, etc?
What this all comes down to is...
Who's the one who is confident?
At some point, one becomes confident as it's a different frequency than being depressed, angry, greedy, etc.
But if that confidence is something we attach to...
Becoming self-centered, it's a slippery slope into arrogance
The whole point in becoming confident is not so you can be arrogant
But so you can be free from all the pain created via a lack of confidence
As you do the work and play the game seriously...
It'll become clear that there's something much beyond confidence
There's a TRUE STRENGTH that comes via seeing through the 'who' which is confident
But you surely can't do that if you are trapped in self doubt and sorrow
So confidence is only a mere stepping stone, it's not at all the end game
Want to begin truly thriving? Living a life founded upon alignment? Freeing yourself from a lack of confidence?