3 Proven Ways To Use Your Fear To Improve Your Family And Intimate Relationships

May 02, 2024 12:10 pm

We all have an internal compass that has pure accuracy

But there must be a certain level of understanding for that compass to be accessible

This compass is the noticing of our thoughts, our friction and the nature behind it all

So how does one (you and I) harness the energy needed to access this overpowered compass?

#1 Living from a place of RADICAL self-honesty

This means that we watch our rationalizations, our justifications and excuses that we create everyday

Conclusions derived from a place of confusion only compound that confusion

Thankfully, we can observe the patterns, themes and structures behind how we deceive ourselves

(one of the main priorities within my mentorship program)

One does tend to have blind spots

And that's okay, as long as we start doing the work right now

Radical self-honesty is a primary pathway to true freedom from the confines of one's programming

#2 The knights go into the darkest entrance to the forest

Listen - my life - the route I've taken - I've gone directly into the darkest part of the forest

Did not get a PHD, nor a bachelors degree (but I've served people with PHDs)

Bet on myself, all in on what my heart truly pulled me to

I've had many many moments of doubt, insecurity, fear that I'm doing something silly

But I've been honest with myself

And I wouldn't want it any other way

Although I'm taking an un-conventional route

It's aligned with who I truly am

I can't force you nor would I ever do that

But the truth is, we are meant to go into the darkest entrance to the forest

(you don't have to do it totally alone)

Only when you truly get to know who you are deep within can your relationships truly thrive on an absolutely new level

And to know thyself one must go into their darkness

#3 Through the darkness can a new way of being be born

Once you take the energy to truly know thyself

You'll become much more sensitive to the moments when you are not thyself

(yes - there are multiple aspects to the human being - the ego - and what's beyond)

Through the darkness (solely living in the ego) you can get to a place of truly understanding fear, suffering and pleasure

Then the compass can be employed everyday

You can sense the ego arising

You can notice it's diabolical, tricky nature, and see through it INSTANTLY

There must be an insight into the nature of what's beyond the ego

This can never be forced, but with that insight, you'll live brand new

This brand new energy will change how you show up, how you talk, how you walk, how you relate to yourself and others

With that, your relationships are bound to flourish and thrive

But you cannot be chasing. There cannot be any goal. There must be a natural insight.

Do you want to do this work together? I have 3 client slots open.

I do not guarantee your application will be accepted. But.

If you truly resonate -

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