The tragedy within dependency:
May 31, 2024 12:00 pm
It may be parents whom try to force you to conform
Or our education system giving you one common route
But to not be aligned, to be living in-authentically...
Everyday this will wear on you, it's a weight that can be removed
Maybe you work a job that keeps you secure
But within that security is the fear of the unknown
There's this gentle flute, that pulls you toward changing
Although there seems to be a battle
As part of you knows you can't keep continuing the current everyday grind
While another aspect struggles to stop procrastinating, to step into the dark forest of uncertainty
But there's a freedom within not depending on others
There's clarity within knowing oneself
And to know oneself one must be willing to attend to one's darkest fears
All the psychological anchors which keep you dependent on others
I'm not at all saying we are not meant to work together
More so hinting at the danger of conformity and dependency
Insert the 'overcoddling mother'
The mother who does EVERYTHING for her children, at the expense of her own authentic awareness of herself
She's dependent, she's so attached to being 'mom' - that she's lost
What's tricky is, the overcoddling mother THINKS she's doing her children a service
But she's actually hindering them, as we all need to learn our lessons
And her attempt to keep the children safe, just prevents the children from truly learning and maturing, growing wise
So whatever it is that you are currently dependent on, or conforming to
Just look at your relationship to that thing
Does it hinder you?
Are you following routines that don't pull the best out of you?
There's many different styles of living
And the structure is simple, if you are exploring, not re-inventing the wheel but always adding your unique, authentic spin, you'll be good
There's truly no rush...
As long as you build yourself in an aligned, aware, structural manner, your awaking and embodiment of that awakening is inevitable
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